Been Chasing Things That Make You HAPPY?

Been Chasing Things That Make You HAPPY?

Been Chasing Things That Make You HAPPY?  Isn't this a confusing topic for our thread today?  It used to be, life seemed much simpler when we were kids.  There were much less things to worry about, and more things that could make us truly HAPPY.  It was amazing how some simple things used to put a BIG SMILE on our face.  I vividly remember how happy I was when I got my first toy car, albeit a manually pushed miniature-sized one💵💴💷

The thing is, as we grow older and our world gets bigger and we gain new experiences, we get overwhelmed and see happiness as something that is hard to achieve and fail to see it's been there all along.  WHY it it so much harder to be HAPPY when you get older?  Oh well, WHEN we were kids, we were so completely focused on ourselves, everything we did, we did to make us feel good📗📙📘

Reality is, as adults, we let society define the notion of HAPPINESS [BUT where are we in that story?].  We need to look for HAPPINESS inside and stop doing things that AREN'T helping us at all.  So, what are our FIXES?  Primero, STOP IGNORING your own needs.  Trying to please everybody is a MISSION IMPOSSIBLE.  You will never be able to do that.  The harsh and hard truth is that NOBODY else will take care of you except YOU.  And the sooner you realize this, you'll be better off then📌📌📌

What we need to realize is that everyone is different and nobody knows better than YOU what you really want and need.  Do sit down and take a moment to think about your desires. TUNE OUT 'outside voices' and follow your emotions and they will tell you WHAT you need.  It DOESN'T make sense you take care of other people's needs BUT who's taking care of YOU❓❓❓

WHAT else?  STOP comparing yourself to others.  There are NO two same people, NOT even Siamese twins.  And that is a wonderful thing.  Being unique as we are, there's NO point in comparing ourselves to other people.  We just end up being miserable and envious of the things we DON'T have.  We have faith in our life journey and that everything we want will find its way to us at the right moment.  That should STOP you from CHASING THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY✅✅✅