How About A Year-ender Insecurity Check!
As today is the last day of 2023, how about we do an Insecurity Check [PLEASE]. This is NOT to be witch-hunting but we'd like to grab this opportunity to do a PULSE CHECK so that, if ever, we can do a REBOOT & RESET when 2024 kicks-in tomorrow. Note that we're NOT trying to cause a SCARE here because feeling INSECURE is our natural, problematic behavior which can worsen if left UNCHECKED💴💷💵
What's potentially alarming, though, is that INSECURE types are extremely risk averse and unproductive. At worse, some can be downright nasty OR display abusive behaviors. Not to pin down on ourselves BUT we got NOTHING TO LOSE if we run this SELF-CHECK [please DON'T announce this SELF-CHECK to your neighborhood and NOT even your beshies and BFFs] please💚💛💜So, here's the tell-tale signs of INSECURITY:- FREQUENTLY changing direction
- UNABLE to express a firm opinion
- CHRONIC inability to make decisions
- OVERLY concerned of what others think
- CONSTANTLY seemingly busy even if not
- PUTTING others down for his own interest
- PARANOID meddlers for others to question practically every move or act they do
Quite a list of manifestations here but let's focus on the LOW-HANGING stuff. And researches show that one of the key reasons INSECURE types stay that way is because they are afraid to say NO to people. So, you might wonder, WHAT's wrong with saying YES to each request by others to you❌❌❌ So WHAT's our takeaway today? Simple. Each time you say YES to someone else at the expense of yourself, it is AS IF you're telling your mind that WHAT you want ISN'T that important. If this becomes a habit, it SHOULDN'T be surprising when your mind DOESN'T value itself anymore. Want to feel more SECURE? Learn to stand up for yourself. Here's hoping you hurdled your INSECURITY CHECK and your 2024 will be much better than 2023. HAPPY NEW YEAR❗❗❗
