Everyone In Life Is Either A LESSON Or A BLESSING

After so many years living on our planet, I believe almost everyone amongst us will agree that there are only two types of people, and they are either LESSONs OR BLESSINGs.  This is a classic case of a straight black OR white [BUT please DON'T inject a negative connotation].  BUT the thing is, there is simply NO IN-BETWEEN in our lives. Everyone In Life Is Either A LESSON Or A BLESSING regardless of any circumstances at hand.  We just need to grasp this concept by its lapel, embrace if you can and based on HOW I did go through in life, life will become a lot easier.  NO bad blood.  NO nemesis.  NO adversary.  BUT in real terms, if ever we do get into an argument OR altercation, we can feel and get aggrieved and it's NOT avoidable that at times, depending on the severity of a conflict, we could even be carrying that 'victim mentality' BUT how often do we succeed in shrugging it off???

NOT to be overly positive, even altercations OR arguments can either enhance our life experience and I personally believe that most of the time, those life experiences will teach us a lesson OR two.  Many years ago, I got into a major road accident WHERE, by local laws, the vehicle WHO ends up hitting another vehicle becomes [by default] the culprit of the road accident even if that second vehicle cut across the intersection WHEN there was NO GREEN traffic light yet.   To cut the long story short, I always told myself that that experience was a BLESSING because it happened at the "BEST TIME possible" ever💥💥💥

Otherwise, regretful expressions like "IF SHE WOULD HAVE DONE"  or "IF HE HADN'T DONE" would have resonated over and over again in many cases.  Instead, by embracing like AS IF it never happened to you, it becomes a reflection of you.  Stating the obvious, all of these do reflect back on you, on me, on us, as to WHAT we need to learn on experience in order to work through WHAT you signed up for, to become the best version of yourself.  If we choose to see it the way it really is, it is an opportunity because as they opine, life changes WHEN we come to understand HOW it works.  To play with words on a serious note, WHEN WE CHANGE THE WE LOOK AT THINGS, THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT CHANGE💧💧💧

BUT again, this is easier said than done.  WHY?  Because most of us expect life to be fair [BUT sometimes it is NOT] because fairness was NEVER promised to us.  Instead, WHAT we have is a rule to live by, that is, if you DON'T learn your lessons, they will come harder UNTIL we end up getting hurt enough to choose a different path.  Question is, WHY WAIT till we get hurt [OR wounded] before we shift over to take a different path?  Another case of too little too late probably.  YES I am fully aligned to this and I can vouch for this too even as I did struggle severely before.  And BTW, relationships do NOT just refer to romantic ones.  Our relationships at the workplace equally matter too!!!

Our takeaway:  NOT to be mistaken that I am encouraging clashes in relationships BUT that is a fact of life.  And while those disconnects will initially be likened to pills that are 'hard to swallow', if you got to swallow it, swallow it.  BUT after swallowing it, you got to pick up the pieces, pick up the lessons learnt and eke out all the LESSONS from therein because all LESSONS have a thing OR two 'positivities'.  The only challenge is that those LESSONS are NOT like the icings on the cake WHERE no effort is needed to be exerted because it's all atop.  You got to exert an effort or two, dude because EVERYONE IN LIFE IS EITHER A LESSON OR A BLESSING😔😔😔