You CAN'T Be Everyone's CUP OF TEA [And That's A-OK!!!]

You CAN'T Be Everyone's CUP OF TEA [And That's A-OK!!!]

You CAN'T Be Everyone's CUP OF TEA [And That's A-OK!!!].  BUT to think about it, you DON'T even like everyone to begin with.  And you CAN'T make everyone think and feel as deeply as you do.  That is indeed a human tragedy because we understand ourselves at the depths. Quick question.  Have you ever been selfless just for others' sake?  You might NOT be fully conscious about it BUT WHO knows, you might be a 'people pleaser'?  Prioritizing others' happiness over your own, fearing rejection and even hate and constantly struggling to even say NO.  You may even be constantly needing to be available for everyone.  In the past, I tried to make myself useful so that people WON'T reject OR replace me so easily.  I even tried to learn many things so that I could always be there for them.  YET, I failed to value myself since the world previously taught me that I'm ONLY valued if I had something to give📗📙📘

NOW, here's the kind of harsh truth.  NOT everyone will do the same for you regardless if you go beyond your own limits.  Some people will only remember you WHEN it's convenient and once they've taken WHAT they want OR WHAT they needed from you, they'll literally disappear without a second thought.  Sounds familiar?  They WON'T even care about the way you did care about them.  See HOW one's memory becomes that short with a limiting factor?  YES, I have to admit, at some point in the past, I realized I was getting exhausted from being a 'people pleaser'.  That idea of being liked by everyone is indeed a fantasy that belongs in fiction, NOT reality💥💥💥

YES, after so much ordeal, I have accepted that I'll never be everyone's CUP OF TEA.  I'll NOT be always qualified in someone's eyes, in someone's standards.  NOT everyone will like me BUT I still hope to find and come across true and genuine people.  And to be honest, there are one too many of them.  Challenge is, you just need to identify them from that huge mammoth crowd.  They are the ones WHO will support me and be by my side even through my most difficult ordeals.  YES, I was getting by, learning a hell lot and establishing my boundaries even though it's difficult. And I did learn to filter WHO has access to me and my own inner peace😌😌😌

YES, through the years, I kept pushing forward, even on days that were quite difficult to continue because it hurts.  YES, sometimes it can feel quite incredibly unfair BUT I did realize that we CAN'T force others to understand OR love us as we wish!@#$%?  Mixing empathy with people-pleasing can lead us to that deep disappointment and even pain within us.  That's WHY it is really imperative NOT to take on others' energies constantly.  Because sometimes, just observing is enough.  YES, you may find the courage to detach from situations and people WHO DON'T serve you right anymore [BUT that's another narrative]❎❎❎

Our takeaway:  Be WHAT you are.  Meet your own expectations and goals and be wary and cautious NOT to [falsely] raise expectations of others because that is a common issue WHEN people either start to frown on you OR worse, they start looking down on you.  Everything boils down to being true and genuine in our daily lives.  Never ever come up with a false facade, even if sometimes that is unintentional because intentional OR not, people will NO doubt make their [INSTANT] judgment call on you.  YES dude, YOU CAN'T BE EVERYONE's CUP OF TEA [and hey THAT's A-OK]!!!