Never Start What You Can't Finish
Historians documented that Charles Darwin spent 22 years travelling around the world and making observations then connecting the dots on the origins of our species. Then that time came to go public with his THEORY of EVOLUTION. So, he realized that he should have Never Start What he Can't Finish. For some of us, it's that very anxiety about our work and sharing it that keeps us from seeing it through to the end.Even if you spend endless hours constructing a narrative about how impactful an idea can be, nothing changes if you DON'T deliver on that idea. Shipping or bringing that idea into fruition, is what causes change to happen. Then you will realize, albeit of late that indeed, you Never Start What You Can't Finish Now what are the COMMON ROADBLOCKS that get in the way and how can we overcome it?Let's think about it, where will be better off? Being READY ? or Being PREPARED ? In the United States, it is commonly heard that the route to Carnegie Hall [that famous and cavernous concert hall in New York] is paved with PRACTICE PRACTICE and PRACTICE. But PRACTICE is another word for PREPARATION. I'm not referring to being prepared though. Preparations ISN'T synonymous with being READY. READY is an emotional choice, the decision to put something into the world and say 'I MADE THIS !' That emotional choice of exposing ourselves. Never Start What You Can't FinishFlipside of things, let's recall the times when we started off an argument that turned into a full-blown quarrel. Sounds familiar? Yeah, here's my question. Did you FINISH off that quarrel? Got it fixed or closed out? That's where we are commonly guilty of. There are gaps and quarrels we leave it at that, [wrongly] thinking that it will die a natural death. No sirrrrrrrrrrs, it won't.
So what is it we want? Nothing less than a peaceful and serene life where we will enjoy our moments, either by ourselves [a.k.a. SELF-CARE] or with our loved ones, our partner/spouse no less. Regardless, let's get this embedded within us: NEVER START WHAT YOU CAN'T FINISH, whether it's towards achieving your goals or having started a conflict that needs to be fixed and dusted off๐๐๐