Go Find The BLUEs And GREENs!

 Go Find The BLUEs And GREENs!

True, the world we live in is made up of opposites.  LIke hot-cold, sweet-sour, males-females, and the list keeps on going and these dualities are most clearly divided at the broad extremes.  BUT life is NOT always about black OR white BUT about grey as well.  And let's take extra steps.  Go Find The BLUEs And GREENs as well.  True, black and white are seen as the comfort zones and grey and even the blues and greens as the unknown or worst, they are tagged as the danger zones.  WHY?  It's because our societies never taught us that it's fine to possess the qualities of grey and the blues and greens in life📗📙📘

WHAT is befuddling here is WHAT we believe and affirm to is that day is with light and the night is without light.  BUT BUT BUT there are those in-between times called dusk and dawn WHERE it is quite difficult to say if it is actually a day OR a night, right?  WHENEVER the sun goes down, do we really officially call it evening?  WHEN before the sun breaks the skyline, do we then call it daytime?  YES, these are unsettled focuses in the world to the majority of us and admittedly, things get murkier💥💥💥

NOW, let's get back to our lives.  WHEN we are in that state WHERE we're dealing with grey areas NO matter WHERE you are with your grey areas, we always need to remember that we are NOT so far enough such that we CAN'T figure it out and it's NEVER too late for the things to settle down and get clearer enough until we GO and FIND THE BLUEs and the GREENs as well.  YES, we DON'T need to be labelled OR feel broken because of the fact that we're dealing with some stuff OR problem in our life that is creating OR causing those hindrances.  True, life is NOT a bed of roses NOT is it a bed of thorns.  Happy and sad moments both are a part of life, BUT what matters the most is HOW do we prepare ourselves for it😊😊😊

One thing we tend to miss at times is the fact that we all possess a choice about WHAT we can control and WHAT all we cannot.  Exercise upon the action of WHAT we know is right to do as per our knowledge.  In fact, that is our biggest asset we all have in our lives WHEN it comes to the grey areas.  It is very easy for us to label something as good OR bad so we carry on to do so without giving a thought about it and figuring out that WHAT it really is and HOW it matters to us.  True, thinking in extremes can cause more NEGATIVITY in our lives.  It's okay to feel your feelings, as we all are meant to feel different emotions as humans.  Hiding behind the mask OR bearing the blinders will only keep the problems alive [and unresolved] in your life.  In the end, we WON'T be able to overcome it if we will certain the same thinking and recoil on it all over again❎❎❎

Our takeaway:  Allow me to copy and paste verbatim these excerpts which are 'spot on' for us to learn and keep in mind:

• NEVER be afraid to speak out about your struggles or feelings
• We're empowered to make decisions, FOCUS is what we need
• WHEN we need help, it DOESN'T mean we're falling apart
• Those LIKES, FRIENDS, FOLLOWERS in social media DO NOT matter at all, period.  Let's go back to true friendships
• WHATEVER you achieved from hard work, you deserve it dude
• Living a happy life is NOT as tough as it might seem to be

Dude, GO FIND THE BLUEs and the GREENs in life❗❗❗