Being Likened To An Onion?

 

Being Likened To An Onion?  NOT good to be tagged that way, WHETHER it's true OR not because assuming one is NOT ONION-skinned, somehow, it gets to tarnish OR besmirch the clean image OR reputation of someone WHO may have taken a lifetime to be as clean and as 'spotless' as one can be, and it DOESN'T matter if a persona happens to be a public [appointed OR elected] official💡💡💡

NOT to defend government OR public officials BUT it is regrettable WHEN one tends to be onion-skinned.  Through the years, I did witness multiple behaviors and manifestations of being ONION-skinned [and I admit that once OR twice, I also exhibited those manifestations].  BUT you might wonder if I got stuck to those manifestation?  Straight from my experiences, I realized that there was NOTHING positive I can derive from those behaviors.  During those isolated episodes, I was veering more on the negativities in life, WHICH never brought me closer to the positive aspects in life📘📙📗

Picking up from my real-life experiences WHEN it comes to ONION-skinned manifestations, I did realize that there was NOTHING positive that ever arose from it.  Did I pick up lessons?  That was a tough call to make because I realized that WHEN one is ONION-skinned, he tends to be 'flummoxed' because at the end of the day, he tends to see only those things he wants to see [and he CAN'T see things he is averse]💥💥💥

SO HOW?  Many times, I realized that for someone to reach that 'realization', it takes one WHO has gone through the same gauntlet to call a spade a spade.  WHY?  It boils down to one's credibility and WHAT better credibility than coming from someone WHO's been through the same predicament and challenges.  Imagine hearing from someone WHO's hardly gone through those battles and wars in life?  YES, that's really human nature.  We tend to give credibility to folks WHO have gone through the same ordeals, similar challenges.  I did bear witness of someone WHO kept preaching all the correct things in life BUT WHEN he was asked, 'DID YOU GO THROUGH IT?', he got stomped and flummoxed😡😡😡

Our takeaway:  Being ONION-SKINNED may NOT be an earth-shaking issue BUT unless it is rectified, the end-loser are NOT the people you interact with BUT it's YOU, it's us if we're that ONION-SKINNED.  To a fault, we tend to be oblivious of our frailties, our shortfalls BUT it takes courage and sheer honesty for one to admit he's ONION-SKINNED because recognition and acceptance is always the first step way before you can ever rectify it.  So, are you BEING LIKENED TO AN ONION???