IF You Have To STOP Controlling and LET GO, LET IT GO!

 

WHO does NOT want to CONTROL?  BUT the bigger question is WHERE does that habitual and conditioned need to CONTROL came from in the first place?  As the confused lot would exclaim, WHAT are the signs of it in our bodies and lives and HOW can we let the CONTROL go and embrace more trust?  Verily true, that is NOT always an easy thing to do BUT it is necessary for us to evolve and grow into the being that the universe means us to be.  YES YES yowww, we owe it to ourselves to evolve.  So,IF You Have To STOP Controlling and LET GO, LET IT GO📗📙📘

Now, let's listen from the experts WHO are telling us that CONTROL IS UNCONSCIOUS.  They support this conclusion alongside the foundational nervous system called our PRIMAL BRAIN.  And as we look to those we count on to teach and protect us, we see that they control a great deal of their thoughts and emotions.  And DON'T be surprised WHEN they categorically state that that CONTROL ISN'T something that is done consciously as we learn things from our parents and even the generations before💧💧💧

We then get a sense of WHAT is and is NOT acceptable and we subconsciously learn to build walls around the parts of ourselves that are considered unacceptable.  So, the biggest thing we learn is that everyone around us is trying like hell NOT to feel their human vulnerability.  And uncertainty comes with being human and this then becomes something we tend to learn that we must fight against, which is an irony💥💥💥

YES, I grabbed this poster because it calls a spade a spade.  WHY if someone wants to leave?  WHY if you need support BUT it's NOT coming?  WHY if you thought you should be part of an event BUT you were uninvited?  WHY if it used to be, people seem to look upon you as someone up in a pedestal [if NOT Mount Rushmore] BUT these days, people seem oblivious that you exist right at their very nose?  We can go on and on, life can be damn hard WHEN we get confronted with these endless 'WHY's' with nary an answer😔😔😔

Our takeaway:  Zillion times we have been peppered with this harsh reminder:  THAT IF it is NOT meant for you OR me, so be it.  And the downside here is that if we attempt to exert more CONTROL to reign in those 'UNCONTROLLABLES' that we deem unacceptable and avoid feeling uncertainty and vulnerability, we may likely end up creating conflict with life itself.  So, IF YOU HAVE TO STOP CONTROLLING AND LET GO, LET IT GO❗❗❗