What's Next After The Billowing Smoke?

What's Next After The Billowing Smoke?

No sirrrrs, I am NOT raising a false emergency alarm here.  Instead, I'm referring more to our life.  What's Next After The Billowing Smoke?  Sometimes [or maybe quite many times], we do get embroiled into the perils of life WHERE one day, smoke starts to billow, those moments WHEN one problem we're facing starts to build up, Like WHEN one is in dire financial straights, UNLESS you have a realistic recovery plan, all hell will break loose📗📙📘

It is indeed a universal truth that talking through our problems can make them GO AWAY.  Oh Oh Oh, NOT exactly.  On the other hand, psychologists researched that if we're into a trauma and will start talking through it DOESN'T necessarily diminish the ill effects BUT it can make things worse!!!  As they dug deeper into their studies, they concluded that there is that fine line between processing the experience to make it that manageable and reliving and even 're-traumatizing' oneself.  Like WHEN someone is recalling something horrific, where you can, DON'T let them go back to that nightmare❎❎❎

The detestable thing is WHEN you do see smoke billowing BUT you either miss it out OR you refuse to accept that indeed there's billowing smoke you're staring.  And WHAT are the ramifications if one either unintentionally misses OR simply refuses to face reality?  Depending as to how fast that smoke is billowing, which means, how fast will your situation deteriorate FROM BAD TO WORSE, that should answer WHETHER you can be facing a NOT so palatable situation too hot to handle sooner than later.  WHAT IF a couple are having spats few times a week that accelerates to a daily exchange of words till profane language would fly on top emotions till, one day, things turn physical???

YES life is tough, let's acknowledge that.  BUT dude, you can still live a good life.  True, NO one promises solutions for life's problems BUT instead, work out an approach towards grappling those problems [before things will pile up, before you end up underneath the bus].  Recognizing our problems and reflecting upon them and probably even extending a helping hand to others will even boost your own morale towards fixing your life✅✅✅

Our takeaway:  My analogy for that billowing smoke in our daily lives is that daily traffic gridlock in almost all metro areas.  And WHAT causes these traffic gridlocks to become as constant as day and night?  Simple answer.  The government authorities tasks to manage traffic have been sleeping on their jobs OR they simply ignore WHEN that monstrous problem started off with a manageable smoke.  Dude, if only they asked themselves, WHAT'S NEXT AFTER THE BILLOWING SMOKE😌😌😌