Why MOVING ON Is Indeed Damn Hard

 

Everytime we hear MOVING ON, instantly, almost everyone would construe that it is about relationship breakups.  Nope sirrrrrrrrrrrrs.  MOVING ON can be transitioning from one normal day-to-day situation to another.  LIKE transitioning @workplace.  LIKE MOVING ON to a new local community [where you seem to be LIKE a foreigner even in your own locality.  LIKE MOVING ON from a business/commercial setup with you managing a coterie of operations teams and suddenly, LIKE suddenly falling off from the skies, here you are, alone and forlorn, managing your downsized business all by yourself.  OH YES, MOVING ON can still be about the post-mortems after a relationship breakup.  Regardless, the key thing here is that MOVING ON is NOT and NEVER the 'end of the world', NOT AT ALL dude💚💛💜

BUT let's take a step back here.  WHY indeed is MOVING ON Damn Hard?  Nope, we DON'T need to burn the midnight oil to find an answer to my own question because in real life, transitions in life simply DON'T have timeframes and timelines in the first place.  For the toughest transitions, it could even linger for months and even donkey years.  And the hardest part just gets ten times harder WHEN our own emotions effectively take over our own selves, LIKE WHEN we're grieving for someone😌😌😌

NOW, let's face the music, WHATEVER kind of music gets played during those transitions, if at all.  Transitions and MOVING ON will definitely impact our daily lives BUT if there is a light at the end of the tunnel, YES dude, it's NOT an incoming train BUT the passage of time itself will help although it is NOT the panacea it is often made out to be.  For some people, time helps BUT are we aware of that 'MAGIC WORD'???

And that 'MAGIC WORD' is the CLOSURE itself.  So, WHEN is CLOSURE that tough?  LIKE WHEN the protagonists themselves are NOT aware as to WHAT caused things to end up that way.  LIKE WHEN the parties themselves keep ruminating WHAT WENT WRONG, and obviously that exacerbates things.  IF there is a frequent mix-up, some quarters [wrongly] think that CLOSURES are dependent on other people.  Especially in relationships, it is NOT uncommon to fantasize about the good times they had in the past💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  Regardless of the quandary one may face in those transitions in life, up front, I did bear witness to people WHO thought they suffered an 'identity loss' during a difficult transition.  And the experts counsel us that we will be hard pressed if we end up disconnected.  And while I heard others taking the scientific approach while others succumbed to the tarot card.  Either way, from my own travails, WHEN I had to cross the bridge, I took it as a 'no turning point' to motivate myself in MOVING ON😡😡😡