[More Than Ever] LISTEN TO YOURSELF!

[More Than Ever] LISTEN TO YOURSELF!

WHY is it we spend donkey years of our life thinking that we are ON TRACK and YES, on paper, everything seems to be that picture perfect, well and neatly laid out execution of our plans.  NOT UNTIL one day you pull the brakes and realize that actually are NOT happy with the way things are running.  So, WHAT WENT WRONG, seriously?  Oh YES, there is a good chance that you NEVER learned HOW to listen to yourself [BUT unfortunately, you have mistaken that chatter in your head for the REAL YOU].  So, the mind-boggling question is:  HOW do we tell WHAT thoughts are the REAL YOU and WHAT thoughts are just WHAT you've been taught to think?  [More Than Ever] LISTEN TO YOURSELF📗📙📘

I'll admit that in the past, we NEVER thought that HOW to listen to oneself should be our talking point, NOT until we fall into that trap WHERE we seem to be neither here NOR there.  Rather than reinvent things, I perused recent researches by experts and they are one in declaring affirmatively that we should learn about VALUES and WHAT yours are.  YES, your VALUES are WHAT deeply matter to you. And if you DON'T know your true VALUES and are living out ones that AREN'T really a fit, you might constantly feel restless and even discontented.  This is NOT to paint a scary scenario💥💥💥

To identify your VALUES, look at your life and WHAT choices bring you undeniable joy and excitement.  And IF you think your VALUE in money, then WHY is it you hate your job as a financial planner BUT you love volunteering work instead?  So, is it possible your true VALUE is giving?  And if you AREN'T sure if a VALUE you think is yours, can we try to imagine a life spent living ONLY that VALUE.  And if you think your VALUE in power, imagine a life WHERE all you have to do is give commands by yourself everyday💦💦💦

Assuming you are NOT sure if a VALUE you think is yours is [really] truly yours, consider to dig out your core beliefs.  As your core beliefs are your viewpoints you have about life, psychologists opine that oftentimes, these beliefs stem from childhood and are passed on to you by your family.  They then would sound like things such as 'the world is a dangerous place' OR 'you CAN'T trust anyone'.  OR 'money is the root of all evil'.  These core beliefs will, however, run through unconscious and inform all of your decisions❗❗❗

Our takeaway:  Critics are all the place but you got to recognize your inner critic more than anything else.  Do watch out for a voice in your head that sounds like a parent telling you WHAT to do in a way that makes you feel resigned OR put down.  True, it's rarely your true self BUT instead, be your inner critic. Yes, it might sound off like it's your father OR mother being hard on you when growing up.  Bottom line, let us NOT miss that opportunity for us to 'police' our own selves because you are the best critic you deserve😁😁😁