The Bed You Made Is The Bed You Lay In

The Bed You Made Is The Bed You Lay In

Before anything else, allow me to clear up things.  Today's piece is neither about travel or tourism but we just want to draw the parallelism for The Bed You Made Is The Bed You Lay In because that message resonates in our daily lives in multifarious ways and shapes.  This adage just CAN'T be debunked because this is air-tight enough to hold that water regardless if the water gets heavier💊💊💊

Harvest what you planted.  Reap what you started.  There's just NO WAY you will harvest a bounty of fruits if what you planted is grass.  NO WAY can you reap the best fruits if what you planted is NOT any of the FRUITS you dreamed of.  If you're still in the academe, the grades you will get is based on the results of your academic performance⏳⏳⏳

Let's swing over to the workplace.  From the time you first take a plunge into the job market, the trajectory of your career heavily hinges on your performance at work.  Do things lazily, you know what's in store for you.  Do things shabbily, you know the QUALITY SCORE you'll get.  Do things reactively, you will get what you deserve.  Move over to your relationships.  How long and how far your relationship will go on and endure heavily hinges on the way you nurtured it to be healthy enough to withstand the challenges along the way💎💎💎

I can attest to having witnessed young students LOST in the MAZE simply because they did NOT put in the required effort in their academic life.  I have witnessed people with potentials yet never even reaching even halfway through their ceiling.  I also bear witness to relationships that seem rock solid only to flounder down the road.  I have seen budding entrepreneurs with all the business acumen only to end up kaput✅✅✅

Now for that icing of the cake.  Nothing can be best exemplified the way we parents raise our children.  Although there are results that defy the given rule of thumb, by and large, how the children are raised by their parents do carry a very big weight in their next phase in life.  That explains why children whose parents get divorced do often end up as COLLATERAL DAMAGE.  The thing is, THE BED YOU MADE IS THE BED YOU LAY IN❗❗❗