'FLASH IN A PAN', Anyone?
More for alignment, let's agree what 'FLASH IN A PAN' is. Some believe that 'FLASH IN A PAN' did originate during the Gold Era when miners would pan for gold. And many failing time and again all in hopes for that one-off, 'FLASH IN A PAN'. In the film industry, it would refer to films that were either a success or marginally successful. Either way, no one expects that film to hit the 'BOX OFFICE' level of expectationsπππRegardless of how the expression 'FLASH IN A PAN' came about, the underlying meanings symbolize similar transitions in which SUCCESS was sought and FAILURE occurred. In real life, you can ask me if I've been a 'FLASH IN A PAN' [even once]. I'm sorry to disappoint anyone expecting me to give an affirmative reply because frankly, I've never been a 'FLASH IN A PAN' because to me, living life like a 'FLASH IN A PAN' borders on the absurd. I would rather fail than pursue my life like a 'FLASH IN A PAN' πππSo let's rattle off some behaviors and manifestations that are akin to 'FLASH IN A PAN'. WHEN you extend a helping hand without being sincere. WHEN you work for the sake of impressing your boss or your client. WHEN you profess your love to a girl you're wooing EVEN IF you DON'T mean it. WHEN you pursue your commercial/business initiatives, seemingly to enamor and lure your customers but with NO deep-seated customer-centricity. Those are NO LESS akin to a 'FLASH IN A PAN' πππEven during those years when I was active in the job market out there, I readied up myself for grueling interviews but I can assure you that those efforts were NEVER a 'FLASH IN A PAN'. In truth, if your specific performance or delivery is a 'FLASH IN A PAN', it becomes unlikely you can replicate it given a REPEAT of the situation❗❗❗Even greeting your next-door neighbor come next morning should and need NOT be a 'FLASH IN A PAN'. When we go on to live our life, what really matters is the aspects of genuineness and sincerity. Take away those criteria, you're akin to a dead fish in a waterless aquarium. With me now facing the mirror, I can claim with a clean slate that the first reason I'm still very much relevant is because in any endeavor I pursued, I ensured that every single effort was exerted with genuine sincerity. Not to frighten the 'chameleon-like' creatures, 'FLASH IN A PAN' will NOT PAN out [no pun intended]✅✅✅