You Created The Mess? Get Out of the Mess

You Created The Mess?  Get Out of the Mess

Yessirrrrrrs it is as simple as that.  If ever You Caused The Mess, Get Out of It.  Nothing more, nothing less.  So, why should we spend time now about a mess and the need to eke out and extricate yourself out of such a messy situation.  Well, we all go through a point in our life where everything seems out of control.  Once you get to that point, it's hard to know where to start.  Now there are two flipsides if you are into a mess.  One, the bad news is that it is hard.  The good news is that you will get through it.

BTW, we're not dissecting mess literally.  Not the messy bedroom.  Not your messy office desk.  But instead, it is the mess in our life.  So how do we deal with it?  Firstly, you need to recognize it.  To turn a blind eye is a FAUX PAS.  It's easy to say that you have to take back control of your life but how do you do it ACTUALLY?  If there is one right answer, most people wouldn't deal with this problem for more than a minute.  The truth is there isn't one.  There is NO quick solution but there are ways to deal with it though.

So what if you tell yourself everything is FINE?  Then there is NOTHING to fix.  The moment you DON'T prioritize dealing with your problems is the moment you lose.  It's possible to get through your days even though your life is a MESS.  Because maybe your home isn't a MESS.   Maybe everything looks alright from the outside.  We can still go to work and pick the kids from school despite our problems but day-to-day, you'll become more anxious and depressed UNTIL it finally hits you all at once, damn hard unfortunately.

Now, here's the thing.  You CAN'T control everything, whew !!!  And once you know what are way beyond your control, LET GO of it. When your life seems like a mess, it often comes down to a lot of things around us that aren't going the way they are supposed to.  It can be the small things like a MESSY kitchen and the BIG things like personal relationships NOT working out or bills and payables are simply overflowing, ouch.  Start out by figuring out exactly where it all seems to go wrong at the moment.  Sit down and write down everything that's bothering you.

By writing it down, you'll be able to to get a good look at your MESSY life.  Sometimes we need to see the problems on a paper written down in our own words.  Once you do this, you'll be able to see that a LOT of the things that seems to make your life a MESS is out of your control.  Underline all the things on the list that you CAN'T control and LET IT GO.  Bottom line is, if you created the MESS, get out of that MESS damn fast and quick✅✅✅