Accept Everything In Life!

Accept Everything In Life!

If I were a salesman and I'll pitch our thread on hand today, I'll admit it's a tough call to make, a tough job to commit to.  WHY?  Because to blurt out ACCEPT EVERYTHING JUST THE WAY IT IS, that is easier said than done at all.  BUT if we think about it, ACCEPTING DOESN'T mean giving up BUT improving and learning to be better.  Because in the first place, HOW can you face the world if you CAN'T face your own self?  OR you CAN'T control yourself?  True, at times, we're down and demotivated💥💥💥

It happens many times in life, n the midst of turmoil, we would even question WHY did we end up facing those challenges and crises.  DO I DESERVE IT, really?  ACCEPTANCE grounds you in WHAT is true, WHERE you have to start for any true effectiveness, happiness and eventually healing.  Can we recognize WHAT we are NOT accepting?  That recognition could be the most common things in life, including the way our body and health is changing, aligned with age, then couple that with our cases of upsets with others that AREN'T healing, past failures, OR NOT having enough$$$ 

Now, for the hardest part, some of the losses we suffer and endure in life are irreversible.  Either THAT person, THAT moment, THAT opportunity would never be coming back, WHATEVER happens.  Perhaps, you turned a corner recently and NOW you wish you've turned the other way?  Psychologists claim that in their studies, it has been shown that often, WHAT blocks us from ACCEPTING a condition is WHAT you did experience if [ONLY] you accepted the condition.  To ACCEPT that experience, try to step back and endeavor to witness it instead💧💧💧

It's true some exceptions in life are indeed painful.  And here's WHAT the experts counsel us.  If it's that painful, do TOUCH IT AND LET IT GO.  Take your time, and take breaks if you need to.  We are also advised to notice the ways we DON'T accept some specific things in life.  Any kind of anger OR righteousness is usually a clue.  YES, you can be discerning, persuasive OR consequential regarding someone WITHOUT tipping into struggling with him OR her❎❎❎

Our takeaway:  Can we consider to lowering our standards for others WHILE raising the bar for our own selves?  DON'T get me wrong it, though.  I DON'T mean being more critical of our own self BUT instead rather, being less critical of others and more focused on raising our own level of well-being and functioning.  It's easy to ACCEPT beautiful sunsets and golden prizes and it's the hard things that are hard to ACCEPT.  BUT can we ACCEPT EVERYTHING IN LIFE, if only to give that a fair chance, dude???