'BUSYNESS' Is Not A Physical State

'BUSYNESS' Is Not A Physical State

'BUSYNESS' Is Not A Physical State,  And all studies are aligned to this given.  WHY?  Because, in unison, everyone says that 'BUSY" is simply a FEELING and moreover, we can control that FEELING.   Now, please DON'T get me wrong.  I'm NOT trying to stir here a sandstorm because, fact is, everyone has a lot of things to do each day [and BTW, that list will NEVER end].  And millions of people all over the world could have same OR similar routines everyday seven days a week, in fact.  So, do we agree that 'BUSYNESS' Is Not A Physical State❓❓❓

Despite the frenetic paces of our daily lives, have you heard some 'noises' like.... A beshie/BFF blurting out to her BFF:  You forgot to INVITE me your housewarming/blessing OR the head of the family scratching his head as he forgot to 'fund' his bank account for a cheque to be cleared that day OR at work, you forgot to ensure that a deliverable to your client gets done latest today❓❓❓

So, WHAT could have caused those misses?  This is NO mind-boggling thing but the most common woe everyday is that someone just DIDN'T WRITE IT DOWN.  It's true we have automated DINGs reminding us but how come sometimes it gets missed? NOT writing down WHAT you have to do means you are solely relying on your brain to manage ALL the things you need to do.  BUT hey, our brains are simply 'damn terrible' at being a To-do List Manager.  BUT hey, that title OR designation is simply non-existent.  Our brain does NOT and CAN'T just compartmentalize what needs to be done & WHEN💴💷💵

BUT true, sometimes our brain REMINDS us to reply to an email [WHILE you're brushing your teeth before going to bed].  Sometimes, it reminds you that you need to do a quick 'car wash' [which you wanted to] BUT your brain reminds you that while you are in the midst of your presentation at work.  So HOW?  Go, get yourself a simple ring-binder notebook and carry it with you everywhere so you can write things on-the-fly.  OR maybe you have your own systems in place but it's just too complicated😒😒😒

Heard of To-do List with dependencies cutting across a fraction of a day or after 2.5 days.  OR when tracking your bank balance, you need to be alerted each time the running balance decreases between $100 to $200?  OR maybe you're NOT efficiently using your calendars on your laptop or smartphone.  OR maybe you just CAN'T say 'NO' to anyone who throws ad hoc requests to you?  At the end of the day, where does this lead you?  Probably, you drive and reach home, down and drained.  BUT hey, 'BUSYNESS' IS NOT A PHYSICAL STATE!@#$%?