Don't Question the Questions, Ever !
Questions Questions Questions, anyone ? Should be that way, we need to be welcoming with all questions posed upon us as long as they are valid and reasonable enough to be answered. Many points of failure in our lives are like landmines planted all over the place, about to blow up anytime we make a misstep. So what do we do instead ? Sadly, many of us tend to avoid or ignore questions posed upon us. Worst, we tend to be smart [not really !] to skirt and go around, giving lip service to posed questions. Why do we avoid or ignore questions posed upon us ? In an illogical sense, we take it as another breach of our privacy, that we are entitled to keep things under cover even for no reason at all. These interrogatives ? We tend to take them as intrusive enough that does not deserve a reasonable response. But don't we realize that whoever is posing that question, it behooves that we respond back because in the first place, it means that our existence, our presence is recognized at the very least.C'mon, can we run things this way. Pull that person in for you to have a one-on-one. That becomes prim and proper so that anything that is unclear or muddled are given crystal-clear clarifications. Whereas in real life, we tend to AVOID & GO on the premise that avoiding questions will lead those questions to a natural deathAs we all live in a digitally connected world now, we don't want to give responses like this right ? That 'THIS TOPIC IS STILL UNDER CONSTRUCTION' and worse, you can't declare 'COME BACK SOON' because questions left unanswered will likely boomerang to you, the supposed responder. Rule here is, avoidance does not closeout loose ends and hanging items.And if for some reasons no one is asking you questions, not to worry, you got a handful of daily questions you need to ask yourself:- DID I ACHIEVE MY TASKS FOR TODAY ?
- WHAT MOTIVATED ME TO ACHIEVE THOSE TASKS ?
- WHAT MISSTEPS or MISTAKES DID I MAKE TODAY ?
- DID MY FAMILY BENEFIT FROM MY TASKS TODAY ?
- HOW CAN I IMPROVE MYSELF BASED FROM TODAY?
- CAN I TAKE GOOD SLEEP BECAUSE OF ALL MY ACCOMPLISHED TASKS FOR TODAY ?
Let's go back and see how far can we replicate the work ethics of Elon Musk. first things first, he always asked: What's your MIT [Most Important Task] for the day ? That then sets the tone for your task planning and prioritization for a given day. Remember, everyday we have 2 options: MOVE FORWARD [and have a choice] OR MOVE BACK INTO SAFETY. It's your call, dude.❗❗❗