How Our BODY LANGUAGE Gives Us Away
How Our BODY LANGUAGE Gives Us Away. Oh, with travels and holidays on a major bounce back, I thought to piggy-back on the frenzied travel activities to harp on the relevance of BODY LANGUAGE especially in real-life scenarios. Take the case WHEN we need to hurdle immigration officers upon arrival in a foreign country. From that point onwards you hand over your passport and travel documents to the immigration, BODY LANGUAGE kicks in, like it OR not๐๐๐
Think of this most common scenario WHEN you're standing right in front the immigration officer and as he inspects your passport and travel documents, you're standing, sweating bullets, and you're wondering how long will that moment linger on. BTW, it turns out that immigration officers are trained to detect 'micro-expressions' WHICH are involuntary facial movements that can reveal your true emotions. They're looking for inconsistencies between WHAT you're saying and WHAT you're face is saying. OR the immi officer can adapt REID TECHNIQUE, a method of questioning that's designed to detect deception๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ
Again, it's based on the idea that people WHO are lying will exhibit non-verbal behaviors like avoiding eye contact, fidgeting, or as simple as crossing one's arms. BTW, the immi officers can employ the 'rapport-building' techniques WHERE they will try to establish a friendly connection with you, making you feel more at ease and then suddenly switch to a more aggressive tone to catch you off guard. Being relaxed and establishing that eye contact might help you get through unscathed๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Oh yes, this is one of the attendant risks of travelling across borders BUT if you got nothing to hide, if all of your manifestations are in good faith, there is no reason to be fidgety, to be nervous OR worse, sweating despite the coolness of the centralized aircon. BTW, immi officers do have a card hidden up in their sleeves. They can detain a traveller FOR NO REASON and even for a pretty LONG TIME, no thanks to a loophole in the Patriot Act [Under Section 235[b], immi officer can hold you for a 'REASONABLE TIME' even without charging you, whew❎❎❎
Our takeaway: The ramifications of BODY LANGUAGE can continue to haunt us on and on and for the unfortunate ones, getting stuck in a bureaucratic limbo, no thanks to the traveler's behavior, even HOW they walk, HOW they interact with the immi officer. So, if you end up acting suspiciously, you might find yourself on the officer's radar, WHICH is unfortunate because, often, PERCEPTION matters. Oh Oh, indeed, HOW OUR BODY LANGUAGE CAN GIVE US AWAY๐๐๐