Stepping Out Of Your Bubble?
Yes we all have our own bubbles in our life. And it's the best place to be. That's where you can be in your most unguarded moments. That's where you feel assured that nothing would go wrong in life. That's when your self-confidence and self-motivation is beyond doubt at its peak. But here's the catch though. Sooner or later, we got to be stepping out of our BUBBLE and many times in fact, it won't be our choice at all๐๐๐Just as our bath tub is, we can't remain enjoying the warmth of the water. Either the water has to be drained or we might have simply overstayed there. So, when do we think we would be stepping out of our BUBBLE? The ability to take risks by stepping out of our BUBBLE is the primary way by which we grow. But the harsh truth is that more often, we're afraid to take that first step. But the real truth that seems to be in oblivion is that our very own BUBBLE is NOT really that comforting enough to be tagged as our COMFORT ZONE๐น๐น๐น
So how can we step out of our BUBBLE a.k.a. COMFORT ZONE? Topping all things, we need to be aware as to what's in there outside our BUBBLE. Not being aware of what's in store outside will not entice us to step out. Equally important, be aware of what you need to overcome. Whether it's the fear of interacting face-to-face or talking before a crowd, figure it out.
Now, tjos becomes trickier and easier said than done. Endeavor to get COMFORTABLE with DISCOMFORT. It could be as simple as talking to someone. But if you hang-on a bit more, you would realize that the DISCOMFORT you had seems to be gradually waning, albeit gradually๐๐๐
Now, taking the next step is crucial. So do take BABY STEPS [and NOT that 'quantum leap']. DON'T try to jump out of your BUBBLE as likely you will get overwhelmed and what happens next, you will jump right back in. Now when trying to 'wiggle out' of a discomfort, be honest enough AT LEAST TO YOURSELF. DON'T condone things wherein you'll alibi is "I JUST DON'T HAVE TIME [right now]". Unless you gather your inner resolve to step out of your BUBBLE, that may NEVER happen, maybe NOT even in your lifetime. My God, that's very pitiful dude❗❗❗