When Everything Turns TOPSY-TURVY!
Ever been in TOPSY-TURVY land? Yes, been there, done that [and I ain't go back there if I could control it]. WHY? Because, When Everything Turns TOPSY-TURVY, we can peruse everywhere to find a FIX but it will be akin to finding for a NEEDLE IN A HAYSTACK. What that means, the probability of finding that FIX is very low if not NIL. But the question is, do we just raise the white flag When Everything Turns TOPSY-TURVY❓❓❓Imagine IF/WHEN our home is a total mess, but NOT even half as messy as your life. Then your partner/spouse ISN'T even talking to you then at the workplace, your work life seems OUT OF CONTROL and then you feel like something is missingπππ
Oh oh oh, we all go through a point in our life when everything are just totally OUT OF CONTROL and the worst thing is that once you reach that point, it will be very extremely hard to know and even decide WHERE to start. And there's both a GOOD and BAD news. For the BAD news, things will be damn hard. And now for the GOOD news. Things will only get betterπππ
So what are our FIXES? First off, whatever FIX we have, there is NO and there will be NO quick FIXES. But as a first step, recognize the mess you are in. It's easy to say that you have to take back CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE but HOW exactly will you gonna pursue that? And if there is one right answer, most people WON'T deal with this problem for more than a minute. Truth is, there is NONE. So, foremost of all, recognize the problem at handπππ
As a follow-through, figure out what's OUT OF CONTROL and LET GO of it. At that point, it often comes down to a lot of things around us that aren't going the way they are supposed to. It can be the small things like a messy kitchen and the big things like personal relationships NOT working out OR the unpaid bills are just overflowing. With this total mess, write down each problem and identify those that are way beyond your CONTROL and just pull a stop, dump it out the window because what matters most unshackle the mess you have WHEN EVERYTHING TURNS TOPSY-TURVY ✅✅✅