Keep THAT FIRE Burning!

Keep THAT FIRE Burning!

To Keep THAT FIRE Burning is easier said than done but this is a MUST-DO so we have to.  BUT as part of our takeaways in life, we DON'T need to be convinced that in a relationship, DON'T allow the 'small things' to get in the way of keeping the FLAME alive in your relationship.  It is up to each of you, individually and together, to make this happen.  And we just to realize that that relationship takes a LIFETIME of EFFORT📗📙📘

Now, I am NO guru on this topic but I'll pull out from my sleeves some age-old practical advices and topping that list is to COMMUNICATE REGULARLY.  And COMMUNICATING is more than just talking.  It is an exchange between the two of you where talking, listening and understanding occurs.  It involves the ability to pay attention to what your partner/spouse is thinking and feeling.  Good communication builds both parties up no less💎💎💎

Emilia Fazzalari, the CEO of Cincoro Tequila and wife of filthy rich American entrepreneur and Boston Celtics majority owner Wycliffe Grousbeck shared that they love to spend an afternoon making pasta sauce from scratch and preparing a feast  And she doesn't miss to share that the holidays are the BEST TIME to light a fire, throw on some great music and fill the night with fun conversations and laughter after her frenetic pace of work💵💴💷

Another shared advice is to CONNECT EMOTIONALLY.  Understanding and listening the NEEDS and WANTS of your partner/spouse helps bring the two of you closer together.  Continue to get to know each other on a deeper level.  And remember to LAUGH.  Just DON'T take life so seriously💕💕💕

And if there is one thing sorely missed by many of us after years and years in a relationship, we got to LOOK FOR THE BEST IN EACH OTHER.  When we look for and focus on the BEST in others, we see the BEST.   Translated bluntly, you SEE what you want to SEE.  Moreover, laughter RELIEVES stress, RELIEVES tension.  Who says the flame is about to flicker out?  That's baloney.  DON'T buy that BUT instead, leave no single stone unturned💙💛💚