Finding FUN Again

Finding FUN Again

Ask me, what makes me envious of children?  It's their never ending appetite for FUN, yes as it is spelled F-U-N.  BUT hey, children DON'T have a monopoly of FUN.  I thought we adults deserve as much FUN as they do.  And probably, we deserve double OR triple their FUN because we grind day-in and day-out, it should NOT be doubted OR debated if we adults deserve double OR triple their FUN.  BUT the bigger question that bogs us down is Finding FUN Again.  Is it something to be served to us on a silver platter?  Is it a DIY thing where we would NOT need to lift our finger?  OR is it a FUN we need to reacquire but we need to work our butts out???

YES, from time to time, we all need to be reminded HOW to make things FUN again.  We need to be reminded that we even have that option [and that option WON'T be taken away from us at all].  It DOESN'T take much to make people forget FUN.  Fifteen minutes of movie-streaming or listening to podcast is enough to do it for them.  A phone call with someone WHO is already having something very other than FUN.  A meeting with someone who's 'secret agenda' is about proving how more important he/she than you📗📙📘

A driver WHO ignores you on purpose.  Lost keys.  Lost temper.  Losing.  And the whole entire beautiful thing gets ruined.  And this is most relevant and true to people going through transition, OR in remission, OR in recovery, people attempting to regain themselves after a particularly profound change.  True, some people remember FUN but WHAT gets lost is how can they make things FUN again💦💦💦

We all had that share of FUN way back our childhood.  Playing every day, climbing trees [and somethings falling off, bruised], running through fields [and stumbling flat on our face].  Surely, those moments are priceless.  You probably had similar experiences.  Even as recent as your high school days when activities tend to veer towards more of adventures.  You explored new places, even sleepovers, even sharing secrets we're afraid our parents will know.  Indeed, those growing up years was excitement at its best✅✅✅

Our takeaway:  As adults, we tend to lose that sense of FUN.  We got to admit we miss those carefree days.  Responsibilities take over.  We forget to play, NOT on purpose.  Everything else becomes essential BUT FUN.  Work and chores fill up our days.  Stress and worries would even replace joy.  Then, weeks blur into months.  You blink and another Christmas comes.  WHERE did all the time go?  WHERE did all the time go?  People seem to have forgotten FINDING FUN AGAIN❗❗❗MERRY CHRISTMAS to all ❗❗❗