Life is NEVER Black Or White
Life is NEVER Black Or White. All along we always harp, KEEP IT SIMPLE, which means, we should live life as simple as either BLACK or WHITE. Analogy aside, life is never BLACK or WHITE. In fact, it's always in the shades of grey. Life ISN'T about knowing all the answers. It is all about exploring the depth and richness behind the ambiguity of all the shades. Indeed, BLACK or WHITE is an easy label but living life in the grey areas pushes you further downπ’π’π’
Many times, when something happens, we see it as if there's only one reason WHY it happened. Our thinking is that things happen because of this and NOT that one. It happened because of BLACK and not WHITE. We get so fixated that life only revolves around the quickest reasonable idea we can think of. BUT life is much more than that. There are one too many myriad of colors in life. Let's have a simple real-life scenario. You and your friend agreed to meet at a place and time more to catch up. BUT your friend missed out. So you got angry and frustratedπππ
The real score was, your friend missed out to meet you up was because of the horrendous traffic and along the way, his mobile battery got drained, he was unable to alert you. BUT from your perspective, your friend missed that time because he just DIDN'T value it, which, it ISN'T true. So, WHAT's the moral of the story? It is that most of the time, it is easy to see the NEGATIVE on the situation. It is easy to blame and be frustrated. BUT harder to understand and see it from a different perspective❎❎❎Thing is, there are many things happening behind closed doors. NOT everything is visible to your naked eye. DON'T be so quick to judge as it is the reason WHY a man becomes miserable, whew. Most day-to-day scenarios, they CAN'T be explained as to YES I did it and allowed it versus NO I did not do it because I did NOT allow. Often times, the real reasons behind is too circuitous❗❗❗
You achieved high academic honors? WOW but that's NOT because you aimed for it. It's because you moved mountains to achieve that. You got multiple job promotions the past years? It's NOT because your bosses like you. It's because you have been consistent in delivering the goods [at work] way beyond expectations and often, you went the EXTRA MILE. So, LIFE IS NEVER BLACK OR WHITEπππ