HOW HARD YOU TRY Versus HOW YOU TRY

HOW HARD YOU TRY Versus HOW YOU TRY

HOW HARD YOU TRY Versus HOW YOU TRY, oh what a boring topic you might try to blurt BUT hold on.  Please allow me to convince you that this topic is worth our five minutes for today.  WHY?  Because many of us frequently get into this dilemma of NOT ignoring things, of NOT procrastinating, of NOT dilly-dallying, only to FAIL after having tried💴💷💵

Well, no matter how hard you try to avoid them, you really CAN'T stop BAD days from happening.  Maybe you lost your job.  Maybe you had an acrimonious fight with your partner/spouse.  Maybe you had a terrible breakup with someone you considered as "THE ONE'.  Maybe you were blindsided by the loss of a loved one📗📙📘

The fact is, we all face times in our lives when we feel the coldest depths of despair, WHEN the only thing we feel like doing is going somewhere quite, staring at the ceiling.  Those are the moments when life feels way too hard, right?  The thing is, when you are in those difficult situations, we do try and sometimes FAIL.  And the thing is, how HARD you try is hardly ever enough.  That's only half the equation.  If you DON'T factor in HOW you try, then it is quite likely that you'll be 'screwed'💎💎💎

Now for a deeper insight, can we agree that your best will NEVER be enough if you DON'T know exactly WHAT you're trying to achieve.  So, here's the DIFFERENCE between your intention and your means.  Just because you have good intentions OR hope for the best, it just DOESN'T mean it will happen.  Just because you did try, even if you did try your best, that's NOT enough either❎❎❎

Sadly, many people [wrongly] believe that if they did try HARD enough, that's enough to get all they want.  That couldn't be more wrong.  There's more to the equation than just how HARD you try.  There's also HOW YOU TRY and what you actually do.  It's NOT just a question of how HARD you try.  It's also, if NOT more, important about how you try.  You can put your blood, sweat and tears into something BUT still get little to NO returns.  Then there's someone else WHO seems to be hardly trying, but they get everything?  WHY?  Because that person is either doing something more effective OR efficient.  They're doing something that works and quite likely, you're using something that DOESN'T.  HOW HARD YOU TRY versus HOW YOU TRY can be oceans apart❗❗❗