Fighting Your Ego?

Per se, there should have been NO issue with our EGO as long as we're playing our cards right, right?  However, it is that SELF-DEFEATING EGO that's killing us.  So many researches have been done to dissect this issue and almost all experts a.k.a. SMEs sing in unison the same tune, i.e. that people indeed differ in their willingness and ability to step outside of their own perspective and understanding [and even managing] our own EGO is often the first thing we should MUST-DO.  BUT how's Fighting Your Ego???

To state things bluntly, experts state how to KILL EGO to KILL EVIL.   And they branched into Axiological Psychology as a new way of thinking.  Looking beyond ego and evil, it offers two strategies for spotting evil WAY BEFORE it finds you.  And the first one is, KILLING EGO TO KILL EVIL while the second strategy involves DEFINING GOOD.  For alignment, let's be clear we're limiting our discussion to self-EGO and defensive-EGO and more than that😌😌😌

Psychologists have long speculated about the nature of EGO and EVIL but few have ever discussed the relationship between them and none from the perspective of science.  Even scientists have been inclined to reject both concepts as obsolete because their surplus meaning makes them confusing.  Now, lets go slightly deeper here.  Cultural influences plus the need to upgrade 3R and 4R [consisting of reading, writing, arithmetic] makes killing EGO that challenging BUT the goal is worth the effort simply because achieving it stands as one of humankind's greatest hopes for the future.  NOW let's be realistic here.  Personhood OR self itself is too complex to be judged, measured OR even be given a report card [in hypothetical terms]💧💧💧

You might challenge me, WHAT'S THE FUSS here?  As one self or personhood is too complex to be judged, even doing so merely distorts the reality one's existence in ways that can enable acts of evil.  In our real day-to-day-life, HOW often did we witness EGOs becoming 'key players' [and impactful at that] in our relationships with our family, work mates and business associates?  HOW many relationships have soured all in the name of a damn EGO?  And HOW many frustrations looped in a vicious cycle because two immovable forces are in an impasse?  And HOW much wreak in life have we seen, no thanks to the bloated EGOs that have gone overboard???

Our takeaway:  Having said a mouthful, generally, people DON'T have the ill-intentions to wreak havoc on relationships all because of EGO.  BUT one fact we CAN'T run away is that if there is a guilty party once we've got that RUNAWAY EGO, it is our own self because we allow it to go berserk and run away?  Once our EGOs are unleased, it's doomsday, it's armageddon no less.  BUT nothing is lost though, ONLY if we can regain control and take reins of our runaway EGO.  UNLESS and UNTIL you have a tight rein of the bull by its horns, you'll be DEAD IN THE WATER, later if NOT sooner.  So, how's your FIGHTING YOUR EGO???