Allow me to quote Irish action star Liam Neeson WHEN he said: TAKE A CHANCE AND GO LIVE LIFE. This was his well-quoted one-liner after his beloved wife, Natasha Richardson, died at that young age of 45 years after a tragic skiing accident at Mont-Tremblant in Canada. WHILE she DIDN'T die immediately, her condition DIDN'T get better. For this loving couple, they had talked way back that in case something happens, they DON'T want to stay alive hooked up to machines. Instead, she wanted to volunteer her organs if possible. Feeling that deep pain, Liam Neeson was quoted many times: 'TAKE A CHANCE AND GO LIVE LIFE. TELL THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE THAT YOU LOVE THEM EVERY DAY. DON'T TAKE ANY MOMENT FOR GRANTED. LIFE IS WORTH LIVING'. WHILE that says a lot, he could have NOT expressed it more than that way. Look around you, HOW many times have we witnessed bereaved family members sulking in sorrow upon the sudden demise of a loved one???
Let's face it. WHEN you find yourself stuck at work OR without the person you love, do you think you could probably be living your life better? WHILE it may be that easy to feel that you have NO control over our existence, from my experiences, I'll opine that it's the opposite in fact. WHY? Because it's only us WHO can get to decide HOW to live our life and HOW we would want to live life to the fullest. Sadly, I am quite sure everyone of us did bear witness [even at first hand] bereaved folks WHO were struggling upon the demise of their loved one. And often, the unsaid part is the 'unverbalized' regrets, regrets for missing out to LIVE LIFE well enough๐ง๐ง๐ง
The kind of silly question I sometimes heard is: HOW and WHERE do we start, once we talk about living life to the fullest? Nothing fancy here, first things first, let us define WHAT HAPPINESS is to us, on our own terms and NOT anyone's else. True, there will be multitudes of people in your life WHO will peddle their own views as to HOW you should go about your future. I even always opine that, generally, once you walk into a room with 10 people, expect 10 varying opinions. The trap here is that some of those opinions will tend to be articulated as FACTS, and it then boils down for you to validate its veracity๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
And here's WHEN things can turn from good to bad OR from bad to worse. Seeking validation from others will only ignite and stir your own feelings of inadequacy and that needless pressure, further hindering yourself from living and experiencing life by your own rules. Others may be happy living a simple yet peaceful life BUT WHEN you no longer define HAPPINESS based on other people's definitions, you will then start to feel lighter and at peace. Many years back, I did thread those circuituous roads before I realized that I was lost and I had to regain control of things❌❌❌
Our takeaway: All along, we prioritize things, goals and dreams. HOW often have we heard us prioritizing PEOPLE? The defensive ones will blurt out LIKE 'BUT I LOVE THEM'. BUT HOW often we are able to match our words with deeds? Again, it aill starts with that firm commitment for the people WHO truly really matter in your life [till your last breath]. Knowing WHO is most important to you further prevents that potential risk of you neglecting OR at least disregarding them, NOT until those last moments of one's life. To piggy-back on Liam Neeson's touching advice: TAKE A CHANCE AND GO LIVE LIFE. TELL THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE THAT YOU LOVE THEM EVERY DAY. DON'T TAKE ANY MOMENT FOR GRANTED. LIFE IS WORTH LIVING๐๐๐













































