Wanna Be Happy? Make Others Happy

Wanna Be Happy? Make Others Happy

Yesireee, this rabbit says it all, happiness is all over the body language.  And this is one area where most of us [including myself in the yesteryears] may be somewhat guilty of, when and where personal aggrandizement was the norm of the day.  We used to be so obsessed with happiness to the extent that we ended up being self-centered and selfish because we [wrongly] thought that we would achieve happiness by feeding ourselves with everything where we wanted to be personally happy.  However, most of the times, whatever happiness we achieved, it was very fleeting, very temporary and very much short-lived.

And not to totally blame ourselves, we have to blame here technology itself.  Who else gave us that frivolous 'SELFIE' application.  With 'SELFIES' becoming more as part of our daily habits, unconsciously, we tended to be so self-centric, self-focused for that obsessed happiness.  Don't get me wrong, i love 'SELFIE' much but let us not be lost that that 'SELFIE' is sufficient for us to achieve happiness. Not at all.

The formula.  The solution.  It's never a complex thing.  We just need to literally switch from our own selves to other people, your partner, your family, your loved ones.  If we go back to SELFIE's, that's fine but let's pull in beside us our partner, our loved ones, our family.  Surprisingly, it will not take a gargantuan effort for you to exert if you want to achieve that happiness.  Once you see your partner smile, your family or loved ones smile, trust me, you would instantly achieve that happiness you were always nursing for.  And that is the beauty behind this cycle of happiness because it comes back to you in a very positive note.

If at all,  we just never forget that we always have that capacity to further scaling up.  To manifest that principle of selfless sacrifice, we should try planting trees under whose shade we do not plan to sit.  To accentuate on this, we can't be what we can't see.  On the other hand, if we see ourselves achieving happiness by making others happy, then that proves that we can be what we can see.

Self-importance.  Self-absorption.  Self-righteousness.  That intolerance.  Inflexibility.  Impatience.  Intolerance.  Incorrigible.  Self-conceitedness.   These are traits that are no-no for us to achieve happiness in good faith.  More importantly, when we see that streak of happiness from our partner, our family, our loved ones, trust me, that feeling to achieve meaningful happiness becomes doable.❗❗❗