Are You In That TOXIC Environment?

 

Quick question:  HOW ARE YOU RIGHT NOW?  NOT to be cynical OR pessimistic, you might feel stressed right NOW and still be forcing yourself to keep standing on your two feet despite feeling tired, drained and probably exasperated.  And I've witnessed situations in the past WHEN someone somehow feels undervalued [a.k.a. UNRECOGNIZED] by people around him, WHETHER it is at home OR at work, even after he has poured it out, giving everything and squeezing himself high and dry.  Despite all those, WHAT can be worse than NOT seeing any progress and instead, finding oneself in a reversal mode from WHAT he wanted to achieve📗📙📘

WHILE there seems many common scenarios, WHAT IF we were in their shoes?  HOW will we feel IF nobody [AS IN NOBODY] wants to acknowledge our modest achievements?  And instead, WHAT happens next is people would be literally talking right behind your back if only to drag you down?  Let's think of the unnecessary discomfort and distress we will feel every time you were in that quagmire???

SO, WHERE do we go from here?  True, working damn hard and kicking your ass and NOT complaining is great.  BUT that is a rare gem to find these days because that's WHAT many of us do lack sometimes BUT again, that should NOT be the reason for all your discomfort.  You might feel the discomfort because you DIDN'T get any recognition from other people, even for just a little bit.  WHICH means, you're NOT seeking validation❎❎❎

YES, you tried to bring about WHAT you did, WHICH is most laudable and important especially at the workplace BUT you just found yourself becoming the most arrogant person in the room for the work you have done.  People then become irritated with your work and you talk about it.  Then, they just DON'T want to acknowledge it, whew! Hey dude, at times, we got to be aware because sometimes NOT all problems that we have are because we DIDN'T do the right thing, NO sirrrrrrs😓😓😓

Our takeaway:  Fact is, most of the time, there is SOMEWHERE WHERE WE WANT TO BE.  You might be imagining somewhere else OR a place that you remember WHERE you feel peaceful and happy.  You might even think that you want to leave WHERE you are right now and believe that somewhere else is better than the place you are right now.  Hmmmm, well, that might be a sign for you because our bodies can tell us WHEN we are actually NOT in the right condition.  SO HOW?  Acknowledge the environment you are in and once you have validated it, the next best move is find a place WHERE you think you will become comfortable BUT to move forward, start by taking a small step towards that place you want to be.  Lesson is, they might dislike you BUT at the end, you are the one WHO LIVES YOUR OWN LIFE.  So, are you still in that likely TOXIC environment.  Do your thing, dude👍👍👍