End That Pity Party

 End That Pity Party

Everyone of us do have our UPs and DOWNs in life and probably for some of us, there could have been more DOWNs than UPs.  And when we're down, it's fine self-pity will creep in.  But when things go down our way, we need to focus on finding the light.  With no vision, we could drift away.  In brief, we gotta fix our life then.  But saying it is better than done so let us translate our words into action via steps proven to be effective over and over again based on clinical studies.

Sulking would be fine but again we can only get so far into that.  Eventually, we need to allow ourselves to consider the expanse where we exist at that moment. And it really depends on how we conceive the limits of our being.  And if there are issues recurring repeatedly, we gotta fix the things that repeat 

everyday because people might think of it as trivial.  Things we do everyday may seem trivial as it comprises approximately 50% of what we need to do for the day but those are just NOT mundane.  The things we do everyday are, in fact, the most important things we do.  And if probably you initiate a hundred adjustments to your being means there's a lot less rubbish around with you and in the end, that would mean there will be likely fewer traps for you to step into.  So how do we take the next step ?  Stay within your domain of competence.  You just DONT walk up to repair a helicopter and start tinkering on it.  The phoenix is a classic example of transformation.  The thing is, the importance of what you learn is proportionate to just how wretched it is to learn it.

If what you're doing is working, you get what you want but there's no learning in that.  It's when you stumble across something difficult, then you recoil then you're down to the depths and you have to sort yourself out and you realize you're down in the dumps and you need some fixing.   That's where things get murkier because we human beings are strange

creatures because we're very malleable compared to animals, just like those grizzly bears now and grizzly bears a thousand years ago are the same, they do the same thing, there's NO transformation but we human beings have this massive brain so we pay a big price for it [as a challenge].  Finding out something you're doing is wrong, that sort of built into like a character, that element of character, a presumption of your perception or a deep habit really built into you and its a neural structure, it's alive and you gotta have to kill it.  

And if you need to go through a massive revision, it's like the person that comes out the other end might hardly be the same person just iike if you're trying to combat alcoholism which is a wretched thing to do, maybe because all of your friends are alcoholic.  In the end, it's NOT how addicted you are to the substance but it's how you live with it.  At the end of day, there is no such thing as a LOST CAUSE except when we feel we're lost in the maze of life.✅✅✅