Of Winners & Whiners

Of Winners & Whiners

How can one letter be so damn powerful, akin to separating the waters in the Red Sea?  Yes, that letter 'H' is that damn powerful.  You insert 'H' in WINNERS, you end up with 'WHINERS'.  Simply put, the person WHO wants to do something will find a way [WHATEVER it takes].  On the other hand, the person WHO DOESN'T will never fail find a reason [call that 'EXCUSE'?] to extricate him/herself out of that situation?   Indeed, Of Winners & Whiners📗📙📘

Oh oh, I CAN'T disagree further from this poster, just 100% true and factual.  So, the puzzling question is what does that letter 'H' got to do, to create this huge divide between WINNERS versus WHINERS?  Many studies have been undertaken and they all ended up with the same conclusions.  THAT there's a huge difference between those two groups the way they THINK, TALK and ACT.  In terms of the way they think, WINNERS keep an open mind.  They consciously refrain from thinking a particular goal is impossible💙💙💙

With WINNERS, as long as they continue to think something is possible, their subconscious minds continue to to work towards the achievement of their goals.  Contrast this to the WHINERS who we'll hear "THAT WON'T WORK" and they start thinking of all kinds of reasons WHY they shouldn't try farther.  And they will then rationalize their lack of effort OR their feelings of fear by telling themselves those 'RATIONAL LIES'.  Moreover, WINNERS talk differently.  WINNERS speak out positive words of affirmation.  They even memorize words OR self-motivating sentences and say them out loud over and over again💦💦💦

The TALE OF THE TAPE says it all.  And clearly, the Red Sea sets them far apart.  In real life, we all experience NOT just the UPs but the DOWNs.  Times WHEN the harvest is low.  Times WHEN business is down.  Times WHEN we are jobless.  Times when we are struggling because someone in the family is seriously medically ill.  BUT while WHINERS tend to commiserate, we will hear from WINNERs those encouraging words like 'NEVER COUNT THE MIGHT-HAVE-BEENS OR YOU'LL BE DEJECTED'. Just NEVER look at WHAT you have lost.  BUT instead, look at WHAT you have left.  Really, that kind of mindset will make one envious of WINNERS [if ever he/she is a WHINER]😄😄😄

Our takeaway:  If we have swept you off your feet to agree that we should all be WINNERS than WHINERS, let's 'pooh-pooh' everything we hear from the former and instead, let's stick to our guns and commit ourselves to the WINNING qualities we want to master, embodying qualities on PATIENCE, PERSEVERANCE and CONFIDENCE.    I remember the champions tell us, speak out those three words every morning and evening, say each word 50 times each and you will NOT be far from that path to be a WINNER [and NOT a WHINER]❗❗❗

Of Winners & Whiners

Of Winners & Whiners

On the surface, Winners & Whiners would look similar [and probably like Siamese Twins].  Oozing with confidence and quite assertive if NOT aggressive.  BUT if for now we'll dump all those labels and simply compare behaviors.  And the person WHO wants to do something will find a way.  And the person WHO doesn't, will readily find an excuse📗📙📘

From a thinking perspective, WINNERS would often keep an open mind as they tend to consciously refrain from thinking that a particular goal mighty be impossible.  As long as they continue to think something is possible, their subconscious minds continue to work towards the achievement of their goals.  Then, swinging over to WHINERS, they WON'T waste time to blurt, "THAT WON'T WORK"❎❎❎

WHINERS will never run out of reasons [a.k.a. alibi] as to WHY they should NOT try it.  And they will go to the extent of justifying their rationale of lacking in effort, their passion OR feelings of fear by telling themselves those 'rational lies'.  And when they start talking, WINNERS talk things out differently.  You would hear POSITIVE words of affirmation and some will even go to the extent of memorizing keywords or self-motivating sentences and they say them out loud over and over again😀😀😀

When a WINNER wants to master patience, he might simply repeat the word 'PATIENCE' fifty times in the morning and fifty times in the afternoon.  Then, when the WINNER is confronted by an irritating co-worker, he would normally respond OR react with patience.  And BTW, WINNERS always find a way to say something POSITIVE to say.  In contrast, WHINERS are more inclined to commiserate and blurt out quite pessimistic and dampened outlooks like 'OH I TRIED THAT OUT BEFORE BUT I FAILED'❌❌❌

Sadly, you could hear WHINERS speak out verbal curses that would surely 'KILL OFF' whatever amount of willingness that is left within them.  Because of the way they think and the way they talk, the difference n the way WINNERS and WHINERS believe is huge, akin to being separated apart by the Red Sea.  WINNERS will keep on trying to find and worm their way.  WHINERS simply DON'T.  That is their stark contract, akin to BLACK versus WHITE, daytime versus night time.  You might challenge me and come up with this big ASK:  Can a WHINER now be a WINNER come next day?  Not too fast, not so soon.  WHY?  Because behaviors and disciplines are NOT instant but instead, they are developed and habitually practiced until it becomes embedded within their persona.  So HOW?  Stop being a WHINER immediately and consistently behave like a WINNER from hereon❗❗❗