Is Your Frying Pan 'BIG ENOUGH'?

 Is Your Frying Pan 'BIG ENOUGH'?

Is Your Frying Pan 'BIG ENOUGH'?  It's true you DON'T need more than just one frying pan at any given time.  BUT, sometimes, you would need a much bigger pan.  And sometimes you need it a bit deeper.  Such is the analogy with life itself.  Regardless if you're still a student now, or someone fresh from university, or one who's now in the workforce, or simply being committed to your partner/spouse.  Regardless, you got to be AGILE📗📙📘

If you're a family man, your being AGILE is NOT even asked because that's a given.  I did hear in the past someone grumbling WHY life's travails never seem to end.  And I didn't mince my words when I blurted "OTHERS DIDN'T CHOOSE OUR LIFE BUT US".  Gone are the days of human slavery so never it comes as a surprise if we have the life we have now.  It's us who directed the sail of the boat and it's who will continue to steer it in the high seas and lead it back safely onshore📌📌📌

These days, the baggage that often is at the crux of things is EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.  Psychologists always stated that "WE ARE ALL CARRYING BACKPACKS THAT WE CONTINUALLY LOAD UP.  WE KEEP STUFFING THEM FULL UNTIL ONE DAY, YOU CAN'T ZIP AND THE STUFF STARTS SPILLING OUT ALL OVER THE PLACE".  And this picture says it all.  Lesson here:  Let us NOT eat beyond what we can chew. way beyond our capacity and capability💊💊💊

So, here are some basic questions for us:  How much does your life weigh?  Imagine for a second you're carrying a backpack.  And I want you to feel the straps on your shoulders and then, try filling it up with people.  Start with casual acquaintances, friends of friends. folks around the office then move to the people that you TRUST unconditionally💎💎💎

So what is this proverbial backpack?  And how can we prevent it from filling up to the point where we feel like we CAN'T carry all of our 'stuff'?  To get to the bottom of it [pun intended], let us NOT be so over-zealous to stretch ourselves too thinly by [falsely but sometimes in good faith] raising expectations in our capability to carry on responsibilities✅✅✅