BREAKTHROUGHs are the best things to happen in our life. BUT WHAT makes BREAKTHROUGHS like an enigma, so elusive to have in life. Several times in the past, I did bear witness to people WHO placed all their marbles on that very optimistic hope that a BREAKTHROUGH will happen soon, IF NOT next day. BUT alas, I was flabbergasted because I CAN'T fathom HOW can they anticipate such a BREAKTHROUGH to be happeningπππ
So, do you want your life to be better come next month, OR next semester OR even come next year? And then for it to get even better the next year? Funny BUT NOT so funny WHEN a new year is turning up around the corner and everyone is busy with their new year's resolutions, setting goals and even 'dreaming' to be changing habits. BUT for many of us, there is a better way we can improve our lifeπππ
WHAT better way we can take so that it can take less effort alongside a higher upside for a leap-ahead progress. It's actually fun and it can add a sense of adventure to our day-to-day life. True, there's nothing wrong with resolutions, goals OR habits BUT those approaches are at best incomplete and that contributes to them often being ineffective. In fact, sometimes they are limiting by keeping us so focused on the details that we miss the big picture of HOW life really worksπππ
YET, we can't be blamed for hungering for those BREAKTHROUGHS, that dramatic discovery OR development that changes our life significantly for the better. Sometimes they come upon us unexpectedly BUT we can find them more readily if we choose to look for them. Too often in our heads-down pursuit of self-help and do-it-yourself improvement, we tend to lose sight of the sense that life is meant to be an adventure. We can reclaim that sense of wonder by searching for 'epiphanies' as well as miracles❎❎❎
Our takeaway: YES, we all yearn for something more, something better. BUT if we pause to think about it, we may notice that there are things we deeply desire OR dream about and we may NOT know HOW to go about finding them. OR, worse, we can choose to disregard that desire and then get by with the angst of that yearning, and cover it up with that "busy-ness'. YES, been there, done that. I had my share of faux pas in the past WHEN that expected BREAKTHROUGH didn't materialize, I [wrongly] thought I can just move on and redirect my focus on something else. The worse mistake I committed then was that, instead of focusing and fixing my 'big miss', I entirely avoided it and started to focus on new goals only to realize that skipping and avoiding that 'big miss' only exacerbated my situation. YES, BREAKTHROUGHS ARE THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE [BUT we got to double-triple our efforts to increase our chances of achieving it]πππ