[Unless You're Driving] DON'T Get Glued On The Rearview Mirror

[Unless You're Driving] DON'T Get Glued On The Rearview Mirror

[Unless You're Driving] DON'T Get Glued On The Rearview Mirror.  Oooops, our thread today is neither about SAFETY nor DRIVING.  Instead, this is how we live our life and as much as possible, minimizing or even avoiding to look back at our past if looking back would mean that you will end getting 'hostaged' by your past, delaying or worse, disabling you to move forward in life💊💊💊

It is more first asking ourselves if we are more tied up by our past instead of looking forward in our future.  And while we all have made mistakes in our past, that is a given but the bigger question looming over us is, WHAT DO WE DO DIFFERENTLY IF WE HAD A CHANCE? We could ask someone about their regrets and surely we will learn a lot.  That's because everyone can think of at least one thing they wish they had done another way📌📌📌

But as we all committed mistakes in our past, the guilt over past mistakes can become paralyzing if it 'CONSUMES' us.  Regrets can either burden our life OR motivate us to move forward.  Unfortunately, we CAN'T just UNDO or REDO what has been done OR not done.  We can, however, take steps to get over the guilt and move past regrets.  So, culling from our past experiences, let's find pronto our FIX.  Primero, it is still a MUST that we do a look-up at the rearview mirror because we need to understand our mistake[s].  True, remorse follows but it is important to understand the source of our remorse and acknowledge our rationale for either doing OR not doing, at that point in time💎💎💎

After all the remorse for such mistakes in our past, let's face it, we need time to GRIEVE if it is not too late to alter the feeling of REGRET by taking some kind of action like reconciling with that other party, whether it is your partner/spouse, a family member or a work colleague.  And sometimes, we do have that opportunity to apologize if we REGRET how we handled a situation with another person.  Then, if there is something you can do now, DO IT❗❗❗

Where an aggrieved party is involved, if you need to FORGIVE, do so, make amends, and convey your REGRET.  We DON'T always have the chance but we still need to express these upsetting emotions that could be limiting our present happiness.  And that's when we got to grab the chance to EXPRESS our feelings.  Bring those swarming, remorseful feelings out of your head.  Bottomline is we should CUT & CUT CLEAN because we CAN'T GET GLUED WITH THE REARVIEW MIRROR because our focus should be driving forward✅✅✅