Stuck In Your Problems?

Stuck In Your Problems?

Who's NOT stuck with problems?  We're all in that same boat.  BUT what separates one from another one is that some of us are Stuck In Your Problems.  Have you ever felt frozen  [AS IF you can't seem to move forward n life?]?  Perhaps it's AS IF you CAN'T seem to move from a traumatic experience OR you just CAN'T tap into the the passion OR enthusiasm that once came so easily.  OR maybe you're UNMOTIVATED at work that you spend time fantasizing about 'getting away' somewhere you CAN'T quite name.  Whatever the cause is, you have NO idea WHAT to do next, WHAT change to make or WHAT specialist to consult.  I had that problem two months ago when my initial prostate ultrasound result showed something NOT quite normal.  Next thing I did, I was wasting no time to 'GOOGLE SEARCH' and imagine the millions of search results bannered at the top of the results telling me I got a few years to live, whew😌😌😌

So, indeed, it's natural for us in life to, at some point, to feel STUCK.  Our juice is meant to flow, so WHAT do we do WHEN no matter how hard we try to get more juice, it just seems to stagnate within us?  To answer that question, maybe it's worth considering what STUCK can look like at least on the physical level.  Through the years, I observed many people [quite up close] whose STUCKNESS developed in their soul long before it manifested in their bodies📘📗📙

We can also easily find ourselves STUCK psychologically often due to trauma.   Our brain feels as though it's in a loop sometimes because it actually is, that we've found a well-trodden neural pathway and dug in deep.  We seem to have a deep unconscious knowing that life is supposed to move.  This is WHAT makes it so obvious when things are NOT moving, even if we DON'T yet know what to do about it.  All life needs to MOVE.  The most effective people are the ones WHO accept this reality and even relish the challenges of overcoming the UNKNOWNS rather than struggling❎❎❎

So, where do we go from here if we're STUCK with a problem?  Primero, STOP ATTACKING THE SYMPTOMS.  Dig up for the root cause.  A broken process or a subtle quality issue can generate a flood of customer satisfaction problems, even cost overruns OR loss of market share.  The right first step for every issue is that old strategy of "ASK WHY 3 TIMES"❗❗❗

Segundo.  Search for the multiple dimensions of a problem.  DON'T oversimplify as most issues have a scope greater than one dimension.  Tercero, BUILD and EVALUATE a list of alternative solutions.  We are all prone to running with the initial solution that comes to mind, rather than comparing several to produce the best outcome.  Cuarto, BUILD MOTIVATION right from yourself.  Build that momentum for early SUCCESSES to come into fruition even if they are SMALL WINS.  Still STUCK IN YOUR PROBLEMS❓❓❓