8 Billion Population YET Loneliness Pervades
8 Billion Population YET Loneliness Pervades??? Indeed it is perplexing to say the least. And just two weeks ago, I read that our global population hit 8 billion, whew. Isn't it strange how loneliness can still pervade across different strata of our society so as to probably lead us to ask ourselves, how can you feel ALONE in the midst of throngs and endless crowds across the globe.Of course, it is NOT that surprising because loneliness is entirely a matter of one's mind and sometimes one's own feelings. You can feel yourself ALONE IN A CROWD of millions of people and even with all the entertainments and social media in front of you, loneliness DOESN'T want to get ended. However, being alone and feeling loneliness are completely different things. Loneliness is a complete state of mind, an EMPTY SPACE inside the mind.It is normal to feel loneliness when a person stays alone, feels unloved whereas loners NEVER want to be alone as they want to talk to others, they want to connect with others but their mental state is at a point where they can't get along with others. They then search for emotional bonds. In fact, he who endured the feeling of loneliness can understand that it is burning, that it's exactly pain Now what causes loneliness? Studies show that generally there is no specific cause of loneliness that can be explained because sometimes that feeling of loneliness can come with NO REASON.Studies have also shown that sometimes, our mind wants to be busy ALL THE TIME till it adapts to a certain flow when our mind does NOT get relevant work and the flow of life is disrupted especially when there are sudden abrupt changes in life, then loneliness is MORE LIKELY to occur. Now, can loneliness be dangeours? Hmmmm, loneliness has a negative-wide impact on our mental and physical health. It robs our sleep, hunger first and from there the body and mind get weaker.
Now, can we STOP loneliness? Yesirrrs it can be done. First, DIVERT your attention. Consciously change your thoughts. And when that FEAR of REJECTION creeps in, overcome it. At the end of the day, loneliness is NOT as bad as you think. A momentary feeling of loneliness creates a vacuum in your mind which can become enjoyable if you can instill in YOU an urge to fill it❗❗❗
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