Be Genuine, Period
Not to be defensive but the real truth is I have tons and tons of imperfections BUT NOT being GENUINE is NOT one of them. In fact, to Be GENUINE, I hold it closest to my heart more than anything else. It's true to that being TRUE to oneself takes confidence, tenacity and often even bravery WHICH is WHY people tend to gravitate toward those WHO are genuine and authentic. Let's face it, across cultures and societies, we tend to value GENUINE people and think poorly of those WHOM we perceive as being 'FAKE'. BUT the question is, WHY IS THAT❓❓❓
Just like children, we adults are strongly encouraged to 'ALWAYS SPEAK HOW YOU FEEL and NEVER BE SORRY FOR BEING REAL'. After all, WHAT motivates 'FAKENESS' is an effort to appear more appealing OR impressive, so shouldn't we find people WHO care about our opinions more appealing than those WHO, by definition, do their own thing regardless of WHAT we think? BUT we shouldn't think along those lines because it does NOT augur well from a GENIUINENESS perspective💦💦💦
BUT in essence, we should be more likely to trust a GENUINE person than a fake one because we believe those WHO are true to themselves are also lively to be truer and more honest to us. As we often associate GENUINENESS with appealing traits such as strength of character and emotional resilience and correctly so, as being true to yourself takes confidence, tenacity and sometimes, even some semblance of bravery💥💥💥
As research studies show, many 'JOURNEYS' of self-improvement and self-discovery involve efforts to live a more authentic life. Adopting the below-listed habits given by experts will go a long way to help us become a more GENUINE person:
- GENUINE PEOPLE SPEAK THEIR MINDS
- GENUINE PEOPLE RESPOND TO INTERNAL EXPECTATIONS, and NOT TO EXTERNAL ONES
- GENUINE PEOPLE FORGE PATHS
- GENUINE PEOPLE ARE NOT THREATENED BY POTENTIAL FAILURE
- GENUINE PEOPLE CAN ADMIT FAULTS
- GENUINE PEOPLE ARE NOT JUDGMENTAL
- GENUINE PEOPLE HAVE SOLID SELF- ESTEEM
Our takeaway: Endeavor to develop that AUTHENTICITY within you. This is self-initiated and no one else can push you on this. Observe yourself objectively to develop that AUTHENTICITY and DON'T overlook the need to examine family belief systems to develop that AUTHENTICITY. And DON'T miss out to identify discrepancies to further develop your AUTHENTICITY. It can be done, dude✅✅✅
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