Who's In-charge Of Your HAPPINESS?

Who's In-charge Of Your HAPPINESS?

Who's In-charge Of Your HAPPINESS?  NOT your boss at the workplace.  NOT your partner/spouse.  NOT even your parents or guardian.  It's on YOU sirrrrrrrrrs.  Too bad that societal norms expect us to show that ear-to-ear wide grin, whether that's in school, at home, at our workplace or even in the midst of our enterprising commercial activities.  That explains this charade📌📌📌

While I am NOT a Buddhist, allow me to quote what the monks say all along, that is, THERE IS NO PATH TO HAPPINESS.  HAPPINESS IS THE PATH.   Truth is, so many people feel unhappy n their lives but they NEVER reflect on what their ownership is in that UNHAPPINESS.  In other words, they do NOT understand what they have done to contribute to that unhappiness💎💎💎

Reality is, if you are relying on anyone or anything else for your happiness, stop that right now.  If you feel like you're NOT quite doing what you want to be doing and you're NOT quite the person you want to be, let reading this be the sign that you have A CHANGE TO MAKE,  There are those who take control of their life and there are those who are life's victims.  Which do you want to be?  The type who confidently assesses their own worth or the type that complains about feeling undervalued⏳⏳⏳

BTW, no one can 'make' you feel anything.  Happy or sad, every emotion you feel you can be in charge of.  Giving away control of your feelings?  Sort it out, dude.  So, how and where do we start?  MAKE A CHANGE.  If you always do what you've done, you'll always get what you've always got.  If you always avoid difficult conversations, you'll always work with a team that isn't up to scratch.  If you always blame others, you'll NEVER take ownership📌📌📌

Everything that happens is a cyclical process that will continue until you make an intervention, that is, a change that puts you towards a new course, a new path.  Feel like you're missing something?  MAKE A CHANGE.  If what you're putting out there isn't working, or isn't manifesting the results you want, it's only YOU that can get you back on the way to be HAPPY.  And DON'T forget to evaluate yourself.  Be prepared to give yourself an HONEST [and probably RUTHLESS] feedback and DON'T forget to learn each time you mess up.  Oh, if you're comfortable with your strengths, who's in-charge of your HAPPINESS❗❗❗