it's How You React That Matters

it's How You React That Matters

They say we human beings are creatures in search of meaning.  BUT the thing is, everything that happens must happen FOR A REASON.  And that explains WHY we keep going day after day.  Sadly, WHATEVER hits us, we're always on the lookout for the underlying reasons, to gain a better understanding of the chain of events.  BUT really, It's How You React That Matters.  BUT what are our favorite reactions?  Karma, divine blessing OR wrath, luck OR misfortune.  BUT without being experts, a closer look at the chain of events reveal that many of the things that happen to us are the results of the 'LAW OF ATTRACTION' in both the POSITIVE and NEGATIVE ways.  BUT can we agree that we are all the SUM of ALL our daily actions, the aggregate of the concrete steps we have taken for the whole day💴💷💵

This is where the LAW of ATTRACTION kicks in because it is basic and simple math.  If I keep writing lines and lines everyday to become a writer, I will be increasing my chances to be a writer.  And if I keep hurting someone, I will be increasing my chances of hurting that someone.  BUT apart from the ordinary beneficial and NEGATIVE events that strike us, it can happen that an immense happiness OR unhappiness strikes us, independently of all our actions to date📗📙📘

Thing is, there is NO easy way to say it and NO need to sugar coat the truth that for many could be LIFE-CHANGING, so we should all be reminded that IT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU BUT HOW YOU REACT TO IT THAT MATTERS.  Usually, you know this to be true and yet it is so hard to let offenses, real and imagined, go without a fight OR at least a great comment📌📌📌

A fact of life is that events are powerful enough to change the course of one's destiny.  And these events do happen without distinction.  As if we'd been the BIG winners OR losers in a lottery, these events turn our lives upside down and call into question everything we believe in.  HOW often do we hear someone blurt 'WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE THIS? So, WHY that kind of question?  Precisely💧💧💧

Many times, history has proven that a major, and some cataclysmic event, is enough to push people to rise up, even stronger.  Our takeaway:  In the face of EXTREME PAIN and sometimes unprecedented PAIN, mankind will manifest and show up its resilience, ingenuity and even progress.  They then make up for their shortcomings and finally see their BLIND SPOTS, learning from their mistakes.  So, dude, IT IS HOW YOU REACT THAT MATTERS💥💥💥