Being In The Middle Is Like 'PURGATORY'

Being In The Middle Is Like 'PURGATORY'

No sirrrs, today's piece is NOT about religionas I would remain apolitical and as impartial I can be.  But isn't this quite interesting to talk about?  That Being In The Middle Is Like 'PURGATORY'.  Not to worry, we'd like pick our brains and discuss more of many scenarios in life where we are being in the middle .  In life, we are rightfully expected to know what is BLACK versus WHITE, what is the RIGHT one versus the WRONG one.

Heard of fence-sitters ?  Yessirrrrs, they are those who figuratively situate themselves in the middle whenever there are two opposing views, two warring factions, two different schools of thought.  WHY can there be fence-sitters?   It's speculative but my safe conjecture is that these fence-sitters are either scared to take a stand or they do not want to displease either of two warring parties or they simply want to give it a shrug of his shoulder and not to be squeezed by two protagonists.

Exactly, we DON'T need fence-sitters, right?  It's true we encourage opinionated ones but at the end of the day, pardon my words but we got to have the 'balls' because by doing so, you manifest your steadfastness to stand up to what you sincerely and honestly believe as to what is correct and righteous based on your honest to goodness belief.  It's true that even our judgment call gets invoked here and it's no farther from the truth that sometimes, we end up with the wrong belief, incorrect opinion and misjudgments as long as we stood by 'our balls'.

Honestly, the worst in life NOT to happen is for us to manifest that "I DON'T CARE" stance.  It may look like a safe and conservative tack [so as you could avoid erring, if it happens you made the incorrect judgment call] but what will be regrettable is that someone with the "I DON'T CARE" will lose things by default.  You could end up 'HIGH & DRY" by being a fence-sitter

So, how should we NOT be a fence-sitter?  EASY.  First off, be consistently conscious that you are always entitled for your opinion and your judgments.  Secondly, do you want to be a non-entity akin to being non-existential?  We DON'T want to be stuck in purgatory, right❓❓❓