How WORDS Matter In Life?
Quite often, people would shrug off WORDS as just WORDS. Some would even add weight to it by calling it empty WORDS. BUT can we agree that the worst conflicts in life, whether it was during the World War II between the allied and axis powers, OR even if it's the Russian involvement in the Crimea Region OR in Ukraine. BUT not to worry, we WON'T delve into geopolitics as that's a domain I CAN'T claim to be an SME. Instead, we'd like to dissect as to How WORDS Matter In Life. We can even stick it out with relationships. Many of them eventually broke out and took their separate ways while some unions managed to get reconciled. BUT akin to the wild swing of the pendulum, WORDS can trigger either the positive OR negative reverberations, sometimes being triggered by the decibels and many times, WORDS would carry the heaviest weight because of both the intrinsic and face values of WORDS itself. When all hell will break loose, we can only pray to the Gods๐๐๐
In real life, it is so effortless to speak without thinking. To NOT genuinely listen and connect with people, WORDS, when used in the wrong way can be devastating, without exaggerating things. YES, WORDS are containers of power. The world's superpowers, OR even the most vociferous celebrities we know, their primary tool is their WORDS, using it to either motivate themselves OR conversely, deflate the thoughts of people they are NOT aligned with❎❎❎
Frankly, WORDS have that enormous and bottomless pit of power to either excite, inspire, elate, sadden frighten, anger OR positively to give that glimmer of hope. Fact is, your own language is your behavior itself. WHAT you say matters and it does shape yourself inside out, your work, your life both your personal and professional lives. Truth of the matter, WHAT you say has the potential to make OR ruin someone's day. On the other hand, a simple act of kindness can transform lives๐ง๐ง๐ง
WHEN some of us would have hit 'rock bottom' in life, we can't give up of bouncing back in life especially when we would then benefit the healing elixir of WORDS of encouragements from our family and trusted friends. Countless of people I know first-hand did have that 180-degree turnaround in their lives when people WHO cared for, really went to the limits to extricate him from that chronic situation. Looking back, do we truly know WHAT someone else is going through? Can we ever understand the emotional turmoil one is going through? Sadly, NOT so palpable on the surface but each of us are going through with our own subset of problems and as outliers, some are grappling with top-heavy challenges in life that can knock them off anytime even as we speak now. BUT do we leave a hapless fellow down???
Our takeaway: Let us be conscious and more deliberate with WORDS. We CAN'T just shoot from the hip. Even 'off the cuff' WORDS CAN'T be an avenue to absolve us from that guilt. We got to realize that there is NO one WHO can escape the matrix of vulnerability that we all inherently possess. The least we can do is be compassionate and offer comfort. It may even make their day. OR it may just inspire them to think and contemplate HOW they can still improve their lot❗❗❗
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