Is Narcissism An Issue?
Is Narcissism An Issue? C'mon dude, let's NOT make an issue out of it. Much as the majority of us WON'T admit it, many of us [including moi in the past] did go through some levels and shades of NARCISSISM, and that is NOT and should NEVER be an issue. For alignment, let's agree to Mr Google's definition that NARCISSISM is a personality disorder where a person tends to be generally unhappy and worse, disappointed when either they DON'T receive the admiration, attention OR favor they requested📗📙📘
One huge disconnect about NARCISSISM is that it is treated as either BLACK or WHITE, which is NOT in the first place. As there is no exact barometer to measure the level of NARCISSISM, there is a huge range WHERE at any point in time one's NARCISSISTIC issues get tagged. It could be as subtle as sometimes feeling down WHEN NOT appreciated or NOT receiving the attention he/she was expecting. And BTW, that's very relative and NOT absolute because there is NO exact science that will validate if someone requires the APPRECIATION or ATTENTION at that moment in time. In short, let's be less tough WHEN NARCISSISM tends to manifest💦💦💦
In truth and in fact, all experts sing one common tune, that is, NARCISSISM is NOT just a mindset BUT as a whole, it is HOW you perceive and it depends on WHICH aspects you focus. Experts claim that NARCISSISM is NOT even pathological because there exist healthy NARCISSISM WHICH is described as having ambition, self care, leadership and being highly driven in WHAT 'passionate' the person💧💧💧
And WHILE competition itself is often done in unhealthy proportions, there still exists sane competitivity. And WHILE NARCISSISM is NOT that of a major issue, everyone does counsel us that it remains something that, most often, will take decades [note that it's PLURAL] to really simmer down. Again, NARCISSISM between two people can even reflect a huge disparity, which means, it can take one decade for one BUT decades for another one's NARCISSISM to simmer down💥💥💥
Although researchers found that on average, NARCISSISM gradually declined as people aged, the 'results show that that decline is NOT as large as one might hope'. In fact, the same experts claim that most declines in NARCISSISM took place over the span of decades. That explains WHY WHEN you look back at how a close friend behaved 20 or 30 years ago, you would likely notice the change. BUT they added that the average decline was at most of moderate size, so, let's NOT expect people's NARCISSISM to change fundamentally❗❗❗
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