If It's Meant To Be, It Will Be

If It's Meant To Be, It Will Be

IF there's a one-liner that seems to sound so cruel and overused at that, it's "If It's Meant To Be, It Will Be".  Likely you would hear this OVER and OVER again as people tend to say this quite often with regard any situation that has NOT gone the way they had planned OR hoped.  They put it down to some superior force controlling their lives NOT allowing them to experience themselves.  WHEN a relationship fails, WHEN someone fails a job interview, WHEN a business fails, we would hear this one-liner over and over again.  The truth is, the statement itself is absolutely true BUT the way in which it is used to determine future events is disturbing to say the least because the future can't be combined with the past📗📙📘

The mix-up here is that this one-liner implies that everything is OUT OF CONTROL when, in fact, we have control over our actions at every given moment.  We also have the power to create our realities as we choose, we have influence over matter and energy and it is that influence that creates.  Every present moment represents infinite number of possibilities.  We use our power of choice to determine WHICH of those possibilities we opt for.  If you see the woman of your dreams walking by you in the street, you have a choice which is, you can either walk over to her and say hello OR you can just let her walk by without taking any action💢💢💢

Of course, there is a good chance that she may think that you are a complete 'wierdo'  for approaching her randomly BUT what the heck, you may never see her again, right?  So, you might consider to taking that shot, even it's a long shot and make the most of it, because it is your attitude and conviction then that determines the flow of the situation.  The other issue with that statement is that the underlying thought is that there is a 'Godly' force of sorts that is sitting 'up there' deciding WHAT is the best for you even if it's something you DON'T like.  Can you see the trouble with the thought like that?  If I go for a job interview with the thought that  "IF IT'S MEANT FOR ME, I'LL GET THE JOB, ELSE I DON'T", likely you will NOT get the job because your heart is just NOT there in your head💧💧💧

Got that mix-up?  WHY should you even be angling for that job at all if it is GOD who will decide WHAT's best for you?  And that GOD will deliver to your door the job HE intends for you.  Quite absurd right?  If you ever catch yourself in the act, of having that thought, gently tell yourself: "WHATEVER HAS HAPPENED IS OF YOUR OWN CHOOSING' and you have the power to choose and create your PRESENT and your FUTURE as you wish it to be💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  In life, it's always a CHOICE and if you want to ask HOW will you know it?  Try it for yourself.  Get to the edge and precipice of things and if you need to cross the bridge, so be it.  It's true that the threat of NEGATIVITY is very much embedded within us and it constantly threatens us BUT DON'T let it overpower you because it is you now seated behind the steering wheel and you have to steer yourself towards the path forward.  Nothing should stop you.  NOT even your NEGATIVE mindset because IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT WILL BE❗❗❗