Is Your Train off the Rail ?
Oh, is your train OFF THE RAIL ? Oh no, that's unacceptable because the end result could be fatal. In life, you can't be OFF THE RAIL. At any given time, you got to be ON-TRACK. You could be delayed in your timelines and that's fine as long as you are NOT OFF THE RAIL. Whys is being OFF THE RAIL so dreaded ? It's because if you are on that path, you are guaranteed and doomed to fail unless miracles will happen, which is pure fiction BTW.And what's the most common symptom to confirm that we're OFF THE RAIL ? It is when you're on the WRONG WAY, when you're in a direction that further push you down south whereas you're north-bound. And what's the most common cause of being on the WRONG WAY ? It is either a WRONG assumption, a WRONG decision or a WRONG judgment call. And what then is the solution to fix it ? You gotta RIGHT the WRONG.Now, what is the hardest part ? Yes sirs, it is to RIGHT the WRONG. I've seen numerous situations of one getting OFF THE RAIL or OFF TRACK but the biggest problem is the person him/herself. If he/she refuses to admit and recognize that he is OFF THE RAIL, and that he made that WRONG decision, there's just no way he/she will RIGHT the WRONG. It all starts in the triple A's namely, ADMITTING, ACKNOWEDGING and ACCEPTING that you're OFF THE RAIL.Yes sireeee, this poster is spot on: 'GOING OFF TRACK IS NEVER A PROBLEM, NOT COMING BACK ON TRACK IS A PROBLEM. That's indeed our most common and recurring problem. Getting back on track. Why ? Because, first and foremost, you gotta accept the triple A's of ACCEPTING, ACKNOWLEDGING and ADMITTING. Once you hurdle that biggest hump, things may not be a breeze but yet, it will be much easier because at that point, you have 'unburdened' yourself of that remorse or guilt feeling of having gotten OFF THE RAIL.
For us to end up with an informed and happy decision, first and foremost, you need to be honest to yourself with what you really want. Secondly, you gotta remain healthy no less. If your health is less than good enough, that throws a monkey wrench on everything else. Thirdly, you need to be passionate with whatever you pursue. What else ? Do help others. Trust me, after you have helped others, you will have that unique sense of fulfillment. What else ? Make sure your finances are 'in order'. Any finance issue will spoil everything you planned. Very lastly, be thankful with the place you are in now. You may not be at the top yet but at least, you're not languishing at the doldrums.✅✅✅
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