A Relationship Does NOT Fix A Problem

A Relationship Does NOT Fix A Problem

We all have our share of problems.  Life is NOT problem-free.  You're down.  You're depressed.  You're feeling detached.  You're overwhelmed with endless problems piling up and compounding in terms of complexity and implications to your daily life.  Look around the world.  How many times have we come across someone who's into that deep morass.  Before you know it, the person plunges into a Relationship.  WHO wants to speculate as to what motivated [a.k.a. PUSHED] him into that game-changing decision?  You're 'spot on'.  He went into that DECISION out of NECESSITY.  And WOULD you want to guess WHAT's that NECESSITY?  Yes dude, that was the NECESSITY to run away from the problems that were overwhelming him.  BUT hey, A Relationship Does NOT Fix A Problem, NOT at all.  On a very temporary circumstance, yes, all the excitement into that relationship will push back into oblivion the avalanche of problems you got.  BUT FOR HOW LONG❓❓❓

That's the thing.  Many of us [yes folks, I was guilty of that before] wrongly think that that kind of decision will rescue you and effectively extricate you out of your problems.  NO sirrrrrrs.  It NEVER will happen.  WHY?  It's all simply because a square peg will NOT fit a round hole.  Every pairing has to be mapped and matched.  A FIX for the sake of being a FIX will NOT resolve a problem that, for either logical OR practical reasons you expect your issue to be fixed!@#$%?

Yes folks, here's the best analogy.  Plunging into a relationship thinking that that FIXES a big chunk of your problems is akin to you running to grab alcohol and get drunk OR worse, getting into drugs UNTIL it drives you into addiction.  WHAT's the end result after all these hullaballoo?  The magnitude and complexity of your problems were hardly dented despite that quick FIX you wrongly thought will FIX most if NOT all your issues💥💥💥

WHAT's the antidote for all these?  As this poster goes, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for your problems.  That is the long and short of it.  By burying your problem underneath with superficial FIXES does NOT help in fact and in truth.  WHEN the party's over, WHEN honeymoon's over, WHERE does that lead you to?  Good guess. You'll be back with your pestering problems right in your face❎❎❎

Our takeaway:  NEVER underestimate the underlying consequences of WRONG decisions, either because the reasons cannot be supported either logically OR even for all practical reasons.  Worst of all, as this poster goes. WHO knows, you're trying to fix a different kind of problem.  Dude, before you take that monumental DECISION, think about it a hundred times please✅✅✅