Old Habits Are Hard To Break
Heard of any of these: Starting tomorrow, I will cut down my carbo by 50%. I'll quit smoking from today. I will manage my social media time from ten hours to one hour everyday. I'll stop eating junk foods including burgers and fries. Guess, what is the average success rate across those who set those game-changing goals? The success rate is even below five percent, whew. Indeed, Old Habits Are Hard To Break not because our goals are a charade but simply because we get eaten alive by human frailties๐๐๐I myself, I was guilty of this many times in the past but at some point, I confronted myself in front the mirror and I gave myself an ultimatum no less. HOW? I tried to identify CUES. Something has to trigger a habit and a CUE can be anything. Maybe the sound of alarm triggers you to hit the snooze button๐๐๐
Once you have identified the CUES, try disrupting things by throwing the BAD habits off track. If the alarm CUES you to hit the snooze button, place the alarm clock [or your smart phone] at the other side of the room. Trekking across the cold floor will likely disrupt that snooze habit. Now, let's listen to those researches who recommend that we try to replace a BAD habit with a GOOD habit as it's proven to be more effective than stopping that BAD habit alone⏳⏳⏳Then, KEEP IT SIMPLE as it's usually hard to change a habit because the behavior has become easy and automatic. The opposite is true too. New behaviors can be HARD because your brain has NOT taken over that new behavior yet. Moving on, think LONG-TERM because HABITS often form because they satisfy short-term impulses, just the way chewing on your nails might immediately CALM YOUR NERVES✅✅✅Lastly, PERSIST and PERSIST. Various researches have shown that what you've done before is a strong indicator of what you'll do next. This means established HABITS are HARD TO BREAK. But here's a silver lining across the gloomy clouds. If you keep at it, your new behaviors will turn into habits too. All it takes is dogged determination and PERSISTENCE, and it works. Yes, this is true: OLD HABITS ARE HARD TO BREAK❗❗❗
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