Asal Bapak Senang [AS LONG AS MY BOSS IS HAPPY]
Just early this morning, I came across this Bahasa Indonesia expression, "Asal Bapak Senang" which means AS LONG AS MY BOSS IS HAPPY. When incumbent Indonesia President Joko Widodo took over the reins from the perennially corrupt previous regimes of Indonesia, "Asal Bapak Senang" was just one battle cry out of a long list as he had to face the steep challenge of combating and arresting the widespread corruption across Indonesia. And as the incumbent President, he was not one official easy enough to win over via the corrupt ways of the past. And I think we laymen can pick u a lesson here from IndonesiaπππBTW, this is not to go on a reverse crusade and peddle the half-truth that we should NOT make the boss happy. Please DON'T get me wrong. In fact, we should always be guided with "Asal Bapak Senang" which means AS LONG AS MY BOSS IS HAPPY. Problem is, some of us would tend to appease our boss [or it could be our partner/spouse or our loved ones] NOT for the right reasonsπππSurely, we have heard tons and tons of CORRUPT practices everywhere. LIKE illegitimate importers attempting to BRIBE the government customs officers. LIKE that reckless driver who runs over a pedestrian and attempts to BRIBE the traffic officer. LIKE those desperate to go to another country, ending up to BRIBE immigration officers [only to get offloaded from the flight manifest when their bogus documents are uncorked]πππ
Diving into our life, where our relationship with our partner/spouse or loved ones matter most, let us NOT embrace this "Asal Bapak Senang" practice which means AS LONG AS MY BOSS IS HAPPY if our intentions are less than what 'GOOD FAITH' is all about. If it's all to appease or provide some relief from an otherwise acrimonious relationship, then let us NOT take that part because you're not scraping the bottom of the barrel with that✅✅✅
The thing is, it's not just making someone HAPPY. It is all about doing things in GOOD FAITH, with no ulterior or underlying intentions which will only undermine that act itself of making someone HAPPY and aligned with "Asal Bapak Senang" which means AS LONG AS MY BOSS IS HAPPY. Bottom line is, even when making someone HAPPY, it has to be done in GOOD FAITH, with the BEST INTENTIONS❗❗❗
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