If It's For You, It Won't Pass You By

 

YES YES yowwww, IF IT'S FOR YOU, IT WON'T PASS YOU BY, a very old quote BUT worth revisiting from time to time.  I just CAN'T disagree with this because WHAT's supposed to be yours OR ours will come and WHAT's meant to be will fall in place, WHAT's right will feel right and we just DON'T have to force things out.  HOW many times in life things DON'T come into fruition at the time and circumstances we wanted it to happen?  I'd say probably look back and estimate that roughly half of things I wanted in life DIDN'T materialized on the dot [although a big chunk did come into fruition much later though]📗📙📘

Truth is, fate and destiny are oblivious of the clock and calendars.  IF they have to happen, they DON'T go through with clockwork precision.  LIKE some things come late.  LIKE some people you meet at the wrong time.  LIKE some dreams take donkey years to bloom.  And some moments do slip through our fingers and before we know it, we fail to realize HOW precious and important those moments were [NOT until those moments are gone].  In relationships, sometimes we are hard pressed to believe WHEN we become heart broken because the person you chose someone else instead.  And NOT WHEN the door you prayed would open stays shut💚💛💜

Talking about fighting battles WHICH at times turn out to be a losing battle, HOW often do we push back against a world that ISN'T that quite ready to share with us WHAT we desire and want to achieve?  And HOW many times did we try to rush and push hard just to make things happen our way [BUT it DIDN'T]?  And then, HOW many times did we go through those exercises in futility?  Sometimes, life itself tricks us by initially giving us all the positive and rosy things until things skid❎❎❎

I did bear witness WHEN my expectations will shoot up dramatically because things are falling into place [way beyond my expectations] and as I thought things were running in my favor, things will crumble down.  LIKE we would pursue a career we hoped and prayed for and discover it DOESN'T make sense.  We'll then rise and then we'll fall down.  And then in time, we'll rise again [BUT NOT after lots of struggles along the way]😡😡😡

Our takeaway:  We can be so intellectually upright OR just knowledgeable enough BUT if there's any assurance I can give everyone, we CAN'T possibly have the answers to every question that pops up in our head.  And we CAN'T possibly understand WHAT's happening, WHERE do we go, WHAT should we do every single second of the day.  And to complicate waters that seem murky enough, we CAN'T possibly know WHAT's right OR good OR ours to keep, NOT UNTIL IF IT'S FOR YOU, THEN IT WON'T PASS YOU BY😗😗😗