NOoooooooo sirrrrrs, I'm NOT switching careers to become a Dr LOVE adviser cum counsellor but allow me to paste herein EN TOTO the Quora.com post by Fano: Actor Vin Diesel broke up with his partner 3 years ago, but when they separated he didn't ask her to leave his house, he feared she would live on a lower level, so he left her the marital home and went to rent a small apartment near her.
He also sent weekly bills for her and her daughter, and paid all monthly internet, phone and electricity bills, and categorically refused to let the media publish anything about their separation.
Six years later, his partner had an accident while returning from a shopping trip. He went to the hospital, stood by her side and even donated blood to her. When she recovered, they got back together.
Conclusion: Love and respect must always remain present, preserve precious memories and respect each other. This is true love, human sacrifice and the purpose of life💚💛💜
Much as I DON'T want to be a copycat, allow me to share here this 'helpful framework' [WHICH I'd rather call as a FORMULA] in life: COMMITMENT = (TREASURES - TROUBLES) + CONTRIBUTIONS - CHOICES. This AI overview highlights the fact that even in a linear manner, POSITIVE aspects in life clearly outweigh the NEGATIVE ones. l remember one marriage counselling book WHICH sums it all as follows: SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS priority QUALITY TIME, EMOTIONAL SUPPORT and jointly work for both the individual and shared growth. WHICH brings me to the dire reality of diaspora impacting a huge slice of populations especially from third world countries💥💥💥Looking back, regardless of culture, country OR even religion, divorce rates are a fact of life. And although we're seeing and witnessing that the human diaspora from third world countries are a major factor in the fragmentation [and eventually separations] of couples, you'll be surprised that the countries registering the highest divorce rates are first world countries like Canada, Netherlands, Sweden and even Spain and Portugal. In short, we CAN'T simply point to third world countries registering high divorce rates❎❎❎ Our takeaway: WHILE there is 'no one size that fits all', once I remember this touching VIN DIESEL love story, this makes me realize that you could be a major part of Hollywood's tinselworld BUT you can be as human as possible. That unique love story also reminds us that WRONGs will always happen in life BUT we can always 'RIGHT THE WRONGs' BUT before I end up eating my own words, allow me to qualify that human relationships can either look like that SIMPLEST equation to the most convoluted and complex one. BUT all hope is NOT lost if we can still pick up a lesson OR two from Vin Diesel's real HEART-TOUCHING LOVE STORY💚💜💛
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