Life Changes Very Quickly In A Very Positive Way IF YOU LET IT

 

Every year, many of us are filled with renewed optimism at making life changes we've always wanted to make.  And everyone has the same chant:  IT'S A FRESH START.  BUT there is always a minority few WHO tend to be more cynical [more than just skeptical] and in the end, they get 'burned' by New Year's resolution that end up as just another set of rehashed wishes.  BUT Life changes very quickly in a very positive way IF YOU LET IT📗📙📘

Each of these is quite understandable BUT the problem with each is that neither really leads to lasting, meaningful change [without some evidence-backed methods to actually make the changes stick].  BUT if we listen to mentors and coaches, they all sing the same tune, that LIFE CHANGES VERY QUICKLY IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY [BUT ONLY IF YOU LET IT].  Looking back, many of our New Year's resolutions DON'T tend to work because of multifarious factors💥💥💥

SO WHY?  Let's rattle off the most obvious low-lying root causes:

• There's that short-term BURST of OPTIMISM [and energy] WHICH normally DOESN'T last that long
• Many of us tend to NOT set up commitments to really last long
• We DON'T have ways of reflecting, learning and adjusting and dealing with the failures and obstacles that inevitably come along, so our attempts end up being very fragile, prone to easily end [and worse, to fall flat even before a plan OR action takes off]

That said, getting jaded about our goals just DOESN'T work because by then, we end up NOT committing ourselves to anything.  NOT getting in touch with possibility, so to speak.  NOT even setting a direction in our life.  LIKE being out to sea without a destination in our life.  WHAT happens next?  We'll float and float WHEREVER the waters will get us drifted to❎❎❎

I've witnessed first-hand some people WHO seem distraught and really down.  And WHEN I dipped my hands to help some people, WHAT I highlighted is that, per se, there are various 'positivities' all around us.  Alas, sometimes those 'positivities' are obscured and worse, they surface as 'negativities' unless you dissect it with a fine tooth of a comb.  BUT WHAT's frustrating is, if the 'road-blocker' is so 'entrenched' within a person, he will be the first one to shut off all 'positivities' he can tap😌😌😌

Our takeaway:  Let us go back to basics, back to the smallest, tiniest steps we can take.  LIKE let's floss just 1 tooth to start with.  LIKE let's do 1 pushup for now [if the gym seems daunting].  LIKE writing one sentence for now [if writing a novel is a tall order].  Note though that those are just starting steps and slowly progress from there.  BUT let us NOT try to get too ambitious in our first start [because that is a recipe of failure, ouch]  YES dude, LIFE CHANGES VERY QUICKLY IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY IF YOU LET IT💚💛💜