When Doubt Creeps In

When Doubt Creeps In

Similar to the roads and highways, nothing is paved smoothly.  And when you drive over to the countryside, anywhere you go you'll end up with nothing but rough roads.  BTW, such is life, nothing is a paved road.  Even and especially in your relationships.  When Doubt Creeps In, what's your next move?  That's a $64 question that sounds simple but I'll admit, it may even take a lifetime to handle such doubt and at worst, things may even be too much to handle.

As it is, DOUBT is a very powerful force in life.  It can consume your life and even sabotage your potential success.  Even at the peak of the peak, you may face moments questioning yourself.  But hey, this is not like Mount Everest too steep to climb.  Truth, is just SHUT IT OFF and MOVE FORWARD.  And there's this old saying 'THE MORE YOU KNOW, THE LESS YOU KNOW' because that's when Doubt Creeps In and maybe you're in a standstill.

Sometimes, you start looking for that PERFECT ANSWER to a question and that even becomes a 'VALID' excuse NOT to take any real action. But the truth is, you probably already know ore than enough to take that first step.  And whatever action you take will result in experience that will help you grow and build momentum.  In real life, when things 'LOOK OK' on the surface, underneath things could be chaotic and you just refuse to look at it.

But hey, once you step into the realm of sharing, things will get easier and much smoother because that will give you an understanding with insights from people with knowledge and those willing to help about what is needed to do to avert when doubt creeps in. Now if there is a recurring culprit when doubt creeps in, it is LAZINESS.  Let's face it, a lot of us are simply damn LAZY.  But hey, laziness is a deceiving experience. 

But outright you might quickly retort, "i'M NOT LAZY.  I WORK HARD".  BUT here's the BUT.  Laziness is NOT a measure of how hard you work.  I'm sure many of you work hard but feel you're in a place where you want to do something new and you just can't seem to move forward getting it done.  BTW, laziness is a byproduct of comfort.  When you're DOUBTING yourself, you get so comfortable with the pain you currently have or the fear you already know that you'd rather live with what you know than venture into WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW.  And it can seem exhausting to make the effort to change things or take risks even if you know that success or a better life is on the other side of the fence.  If at this point doubt still creeps in, do you really want to get stuck❓❓❓